We understand your concerns about the teachings and practices in some churches in Singapore. Let us address these issues together in light of the Word of God.
Firstly, it is important to clarify the biblical stance on tithing. In the New Testament, there is no specific command to tithe. Instead, the focus is on generous, cheerful, and voluntary giving. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 9:7 (WEB), "Let each man give according as he has determined in his heart; not grudgingly, or under compulsion; for God loves a cheerful giver." The concept of giving should come from a heart of love and gratitude, not out of fear or compulsion.
Using threats or coercion, such as saying bad things will happen or that Jesus will change His blessings to curses if one does not tithe, is not supported by Scripture. Jesus Himself said in Matthew 23:23 (WEB), "Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you tithe mint, dill, and cumin, and have left undone the weightier matters of the law: justice, mercy, and faith. But you ought to have done these, and not to have left the other undone." We must be careful not to emphasize minor issues while neglecting the core aspects of our faith.
Regarding marriage, the Bible teaches that marriage is a sacred institution between a man and a woman. In Mark 10:6-9 (WEB), Jesus said, "But from the beginning of the creation, God made them male and female. For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will join to his wife, and the two will become one flesh, so that they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." It is not biblical to forbid marriage or to create unnecessary restrictions around it.
The issue of dietary restrictions, such as enforcing veganism, should also be addressed. In 1 Timothy 4:4-5 (WEB), it is written, "For every creature of God is good, and nothing is to be rejected, if it is received with thanksgiving. For it is sanctified through the word of God and prayer." Food itself is not unclean; it is the attitude of the heart that matters.
Let us pray for this situation:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your intervention in the churches of Singapore. Lord, we ask that You correct and guide those who are misleading Your people with false teachings and threats. Help them to understand the true nature of giving and the freedom we have in Christ Jesus.
Father, we pray for those who have been harmed or misled by these practices. May they find healing, forgiveness, and the true joy of living in Your grace. We ask that You draw many to the knowledge of Your love and mercy, away from legalism and fear.
We pray, Lord, that Your Church in Singapore will reflect Your character of love, grace, and truth. Help them to focus on the weightier matters of the law: justice, mercy, and faith. In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen."
Remember, the ultimate guide for our faith and practice is the Word of God. Let us always test every spirit and teaching against the Scriptures, as it is written in 1 John 4:1 (WEB), "Beloved, donโt believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world."
May the Lord grant you wisdom, discernment, and the courage to stand for the truth in love.