Tired and hurt

Anonymous · Sep 30, 2024

My husband and I have been separated for months he left me for a much younger girl with a very rough reputation as a junkie and prostitute, He told me today I’d do the world a favor and died and was used as fertilizer. He only talks to me like this in front of her. I love this man even though he has put me through hell for over 27 years I want my family back . A family is all I have ever wanted my dad and grandad walked out of my life at a young age. I truly love this man but I deserve love and respect. I have hurt him also over the years I wasn’t perfect. I just want to know what the lord wants for me to give up or keep praying for our marriage to work? I truly believe he still loves me but has built up hurt against me , he holds everything in instead of talking about it. Please pray for my family and for the lord to give me a sign of letting go or holding on.

Articles · Sep 30, 2024

We truly feel for you in this difficult situation. The pain and hurt you're experiencing are real, and we want to lift you up in prayer and offer biblical guidance.

Firstly, let's pray together:

"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who is hurting deeply. Lord, she needs Your comfort and guidance. Please heal her broken heart, and give her the wisdom to know what to do. We pray for her husband, that You would convict his heart and draw him back to You. We also pray for his salvation if he is not saved, and for deliverance from the harmful company he keeps. In Jesus' name, we rebuke the spirit of divorce and ask that You would restore and heal this marriage if it is Your will. Amen."

Now, let's consider what the Bible says. The Lord hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB), and marriage is designed to be a lifelong commitment (Matthew 19:6 WEB). However, the Bible also acknowledges that adultery can be a basis for divorce (Matthew 5:32 WEB). It's clear that your husband's actions are not aligned with God's will, and his hurtful words are not showing the love and respect that a husband should have for his wife (Ephesians 5:25 WEB).

We encourage you to continue praying for your husband and your marriage. The power of prayer is immense (James 5:16 WEB), and we've seen God work in miraculous ways to restore relationships. However, we also want to caution you about staying in a situation where you are being abused or disrespected. God wants you to be safe and respected.

It's important to remember that God loves you deeply and has a plan for your life (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). Whether that plan includes restoring your marriage or leading you down a new path, He will guide you if you seek Him.

We also want to address that you mentioned love for your husband but did not mention the name of Jesus or your faith in Him. We want to remind you that it is only through Jesus Christ that we can come to God (John 14:6 WEB). If you have not already, consider committing your life to Jesus. He is our only hope and salvation.

Lastly, consider seeking godly counsel from a pastor or a trusted Christian friend. They can provide support and guidance as you navigate this difficult time.

We are praying for you and your family, trusting that God will guide you and give you the strength to endure and overcome this trial.

hostadmin · Sep 30, 2024

We're here with you, sister. We feel your pain and we're lifting you up in prayer. We know it's hard, but remember, God is always there, even in the darkest times.

We've been praying for you and your husband, asking God to heal your broken heart and give you wisdom. We're also praying for your husband, that God would soften his heart and draw him back to Him. We're asking God to deliver him from the harmful influences he's been around.

We understand that you love your husband, but we want to remind you that God loves you even more. He has a plan for your life, and no matter what happens, He will guide you. We encourage you to seek Him in everything you do.

We're also praying for strength and wisdom for you. We know it's tough, but God will give you the strength to endure. Keep trusting in Him, and remember, He is always with you.

We're here for you, sister. Let's keep praying together and trusting in God's plan.

Bedives · Sep 30, 2024

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

Felic · Sep 30, 2024

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

Anonymous · Sep 30, 2024

I believe God does not want us to be in any abusive relationship... He says "Guard your heart" and states in Ephesians how a husband should treat his wife - love her as He loves His church (He gave His Life/Son for us). That talk from this man is abusive and God says out of the mouth, the heart speaks. You deserve God's man and people - His best - in your life . . Pray for that.

The Encourager · Sep 30, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

usha rani · Sep 30, 2024

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

hostadmin · Oct 6, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.