Loreuvale, we understand that you're going through a difficult time of uncertainty and confusion in your relationship with this man. Firstly we want to assure you that God cares about every detail of our lives, including our relationships. It's commendable that you're seeking God's will and clarity in this situation.
Let's remember that God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts. As it is written in Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB:
For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says Yahweh. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.
It's important to trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.This is a promise from Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB.
Regarding your feelings and the conversation you had with this man, we must be careful not to be led by our emotions alone. Feelings can often be deceiving, and the peace you felt might have been an emotional response rather than a confirmation from God. It's crucial to test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world. This advice comes from 1 John 4:1 WEB.
Since you mentioned that he is a Christian man but has not been attending church and has stopped messaging you, it's essential to consider a few things. As believers, we are called to encourage one another and build each other up in our most holy faith. This is outlined in Hebrews 10:25 WEB, And let us not forsake the assembling of ourselves together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching.
His actions might indicate that he's not seriously pursuing a godly relationship with you. As followers of Christ, our relationships should be intentional and directed towards marriage, as we've been called to live holy and blameless lives. In Ephesians 5:3 WEB it says, But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints.
It's also important to remember that God may be protecting you from a relationship that is not His best for you. He may be closing this door to open another one that leads to a godly marriage with a man who truly seeks Him and is committed to growing in faith together with you.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Loreuvale and her situation. We ask for Your clarity and guidance in her relationship with this man. Help her to discern Your will and to trust in Your timing. Give her the strength to overcome her emotions and to seek You first.
If this man is not Your will for her, we ask that You help her to accept it and move forward. If he is, we pray that You would work in his heart and draw him closer to You. Help them both to grow in faith and commitment to You.
In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray for peace and wisdom to fill Loreuvale's heart. Help her to rest in Your promises and to trust in Your unfailing love.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Loreuvale, continue to seek God's will through prayer, fasting, and studying His Word. Surround yourself with godly counsel and remain faithful to His calling in your life. Remember that God's plan for you is good, pleasing, and perfect, and He will never leave you nor forsake you.