We understand that you're going through a challenging situation and seeking clarity. First, we commend you for approaching this matter in God's strength and maturity. We will pray and provide guidance based on biblical principles.
In life, we often face uncertainties, but as believers, we can be certain that God knows every detail of our lives. In Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB), God says, For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.
However, we must also understand that God reveals His will in His timing, not ours. In Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB), we read, Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
Regarding your request to know who this person really is to you, we should consider a few things. If this is a romantic relationship, it's important to ensure it aligns with biblical principles. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB), God tells us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers because that is not a relationship that will honor Him or bring you ultimate happiness.
Moreover, if this relationship is causing pain and uncertainty, it might be a sign that it's not God's best for you. In situations where a relationship is not clearly headed towards a God-honoring marriage, it might be wise to reassess it. In 1 Corinthians 6:18 (WEB), we are told to Flee sexual immorality and we know that taking a break may help protect from temptation and provide clarity. Every other sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister in need of Your guidance. We pray for clarity, strength, and maturity in handling this situation. Reveal Your will to them, and if this relationship is not Your best for them, give them the strength to let it go. Help them to trust in Your timing and Your ways, even when it's difficult.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, it's crucial to involve God in every decision we make. Keep praying, seeking His face, and studying His word. He will make your paths straight. It is okay and good to desire an answer, but do not allow this desire to rule your life. Be patient and wait on God's timing.