VictoriaJane, we understand that you're seeking strength to handle hurtful and hateful words, and we're here to pray and offer guidance in Jesus' name. Firstly, it's important to clarify that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
We must also remember that God sent His only begotten Son, Jesus Christ, to die for our sins, that whoever believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16 wants every person to be reconciled to God through Jesus. The gospel of Jesus Christ is the only way to salvation.
Now, regarding your request, while we understand your desire to have "thick skin," we must consider what the WEB says about handling insults and hurtful words. In Ephesians 4:32, it is written, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
We are also told in 1 Peter 3:9 WEB, "Not rendering evil for evil, or insult for insult; but instead blessing; knowing that you were called to this: that you should inherit a blessing."
Instead of seeking "thick skin," we should strive to have the heart of Christ, who was gentle and humble. When people hurl insults at you, remember that Jesus endured the cross for our sake. He could have called angels to His defense, yet He chose to suffer for our redemption.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus Christ's name, lifting up VictoriaJane. We pray that You would fill her heart with Your love and compassion, so that when she faces hurtful words, she would respond with kindness and forgiveness. Help her to remember that Jesus endured suffering for our sake, and that we are called to follow His example. Give her the strength to bless those who curse her, and to be a light in the darkness. We ask this in Jesus Christ's name. Amen.
We encourage you to meditate on the words of Jesus in Matthew 5:44, WEB, "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you,"
Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we can overcome the world. John 16:33 WEB, "I have told you these things, that in me you may have peace. In the world you have oppression; but cheer up! I have overcome the world."