Dexter2020, we understand that you might feel upset, but it's crucial to address the concerns biblically. The Bible is clear about sexual intimacy outside of marriage. In 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB, it says, "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.
The mention of fornication is not meant to insult you but to guide you according to God's word. It is important to honor God in all aspects of life, including relationships. If Felicia is the one for you, then pursuing a godly courtship with the intention of marriage is the biblical path to follow.
As it is said 'Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the bed undefiled: but fornicators and adulterers God will judge' in Hebrews 13:4 WEB, it is also said.
Do not be deceived.
1 Corinthians 7:2 WEB
2 But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.
This is also an issue of not placing yourself or Felicia into sexual temptation.
1 Corinthians 7:5
5 Do not deprive* one another, except it be by consent for a season, that you* may* give yourselves to prayer, and may be together* again, that Satan not tempt you* for your* lack of self-control.
Matthew 4:7 Jesus said to him, "Again, it is written, 'You shall not test the Lord, your God.'"
Moreover. Jesus understood temptation. Read Matthew 4:1-11 WEB
1 Then Jesus was led up by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. 2 When he had fasted forty days and forty nights, he was hungry afterward. 3 The tempter came and said to him, “If you are the Son of God, command that these stones become bread.”
4 But he answered, “It is written, ‘Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God.’✡”
5 Then the devil took him into the holy city. He set him on the pinnacle of the temple, 6 and said to him, “If you are the Son of God, throw yourself down, for it is written,
‘He will command his angels concerning you,’ and,
‘On their hands they will bear you up,
so that you don’t dash your foot against a stone.’✡”
7 Jesus said to him, “Again, it is written, ‘You shall not test the Lord, your God.’✡”
8 Again, the devil took him to an exceedingly high mountain, and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory. 9 He said to him, “I will give you all of these things, if you will fall down and worship me.”
10 Then Jesus said to him, “Get behind me‡, Satan! For it is written, ‘You shall worship the Lord your God, and you shall serve him only.’✡”
11 Then the devil left him, and behold, angels came and served him.
This is not our rulings but instead God's rulings.
In the students handbook of 1 Corinthians WEB, is says
Study Notes—1 Corinthians 6:18
flee immorality - Run away from it. Do not flirt with it. Do not see how close you can get to the flames of lust without being burned. If you play with fire long enough, you will surely be burned. If we really see the seriousness of the issues here, we will not see how close we can get without sinning. Rather, we will do everything we can to prevent sexual lust from gaining a foothold in our lives. We will keep our minds from thinking about it. We will not dwell on images that bring it to mind. We will keep a tight reign on our desires and recognize that every person of the opposite sex we meet is someone else’s brother or sister or father or mother in Christ. Note: Instructions with conclusions regarding how close is too close are legalistic.
elsewhere in Job 31 WEB, 1 I made a covenant with my eyes, how then should I look lustfully at a young woman? 2 For what is the portion from God above, and the heritage from the Almighty on high?
It is clear that sexual contact without marriage covenant has consequences on our relationship with God and out eternal salvation.
Also consider
Revelation 21:8 WEB But for the cowardly, unbelieving, sinners, abominable, murderers, sexually immoral, sorcerers,‡ idolaters, and all liars, their part is in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur, which is the second death.”
Hebrews 13:4 WEBMarriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled; but sexual sinners and adulterers God will judge.
Galations 5:19-21
19 Now the works of the flesh are obvious, which are: adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness, 20 idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies, 21 envy, murders, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these; of which I forewarn you, even as I also forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the Kingdom of God.
Revelation 22:15 WEB Outisde are the dogs, the sorcerers, the sexually immoral, the murderers, the idolaters, and everyone who loves and practices falsehood.
We are not judging you, your actions, or your faith. Jesus's message is a message of repentance and acceptance of him. Jesus did not come to call the righteous to repentance but the sinner.
Also see,
1 Timothy 1;9-11 WEB knowing this, that law is not made for a righteous man, but for the lawless and insubordinate, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for murderers of fathers and murderers of mothers, for assassins, 10 for the sexually immoral, for homosexuals, for slave-traders, for liars, for perjurers, and for any other thing contrary to the healthy teaching, 11 according to the Good News of the glory of the blessed God, which was committed to my trust.
In summary, Dexter2020, God is calling you to himself, he is calling you to right relationship with him and Felicia.
1 John 1:9 WEB If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
Please join us in prayer,
Let's pray together,
Almighty God, we come before You, lifting up Dexter2020 and Felicia. We pray that You guide them in Your will and help them to honor You in their relationship. Give them the strength to resist temptation and to pursue a godly courtship that leads to marriage if that is what they are called to. Help Dexter understand that we call out sin because we love him and not to judge him. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.