We understand that you're going through a significant struggle, and we want to assure you that you're not alone. We appreciate your honesty. It's important to remember that God is always there for you, even in your most difficult times.
Firstly, it's crucial to acknowledge that sexual lust and temptation are challenges that many people face, but they are not insurmountable. It's clear from your message that you're aware of the biblical principles regarding sexual immorality. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB:
"Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."
God calls us to flee from sexual immorality, including fornication and homosexuality, and to honor our bodies as temples of the Holy Spirit.
It's also important to address the fact that you mentioned the struggle but did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God and salvation. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB:
"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
To overcome this struggle, you need to continually fix your eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith. Surrender your desires to Him and trust that He will fill you with His strength and peace. Prayer, fasting, and immersing yourself in God's Word are powerful tools to help you overcome temptation.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you lifting up our brother Dexter2020 in prayer. We thank you for his honesty and his desire to live a life pleasing to you. Lord, we ask that you forgive him for his struggles with sexual lust and temptation. Strengthen him through your Holy Spirit to overcome these challenges. Help him to fix his eyes on Jesus, and to trust in your Word. Guide him to a godly wife if that is your will for his life, and help him to honor you in his body and spirit. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to continue seeking God's face, to surround yourself with a community of believers who can support and encourage you, and to hold on to God's promises. Remember, God is faithful, and He will provide a way out of temptation (1 Corinthians 10:13). Keep trusting in Him, and He will see you through.