The relationship with my fiance seems over

[Bwils]

May the lord bring us all peace. I am writing because over the past few months my fiance and I were taking time apart. She recently texted me and gave me all of my belongs back. She didn't try to meet me in person, she just left my stuff on the curb. She hasn't even tried to explain what's going on. We were living together at her mother's house to save money, but facing financial pressures and going back to school, I went back home to refocus. Communication has been sparse. I'm trying to move one, but my heart still aches for her. I don't know what lead to this. I don't know why someone who said she wanted to marry me and start a family with me, now seemingly wants nothing to do with me. I don't understand. I've been going to church a lot, and praying too, but I feel empty inside quite a bit. I just wish she would call. Sometimes during the holidays, you just want the person you've been longing for to show up in a hallmark movie style way...but I don't think that's going to happen. It feels like my heart is being attacked by the enemy. I'm just praying to feel the lords strength and the warmth of the holy spirit. I also pray for anyone reading or currently struggling with their own battles. With love and spirit of God--B

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and confusion you're experiencing in your relationship, Bwils. Let's first turn to God's Word for guidance and comfort.

Firstly, it is important to use this opportunity to ensure that Jesus Christ is the Lord and savior of your life. It is only by his name that we have to approach God the father.

One helpful scripture that applies to relationship separation is 1 Thessalonians 5:18, that says: "In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus toward you." This is the perfect opportunity to give thanks for all the things we haven't lost.

It's clear that you and your fiancée are going through a difficult time, and it's important to remember that God's will should be at the center of any relationship. It is also important to say and understand why the relationship is being broken off.

As it is important to have a strong relationship in Christ, it is also important to pursue a marriage that is Christ-centered. It is important and recommended to marry or seek a relationship with someone who is a fellow Christian. This is to ensure that beliefs are aligned and that the relationship is founded on Christian beliefs.

In the scriptures, it says: "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?" 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB).

It is also important to mention that, in the scriptures, it says:

Ephesians 5:3 "But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints;"
Ephesians 5:5-6 "5 Know this for sure, that no sexually immoral person, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the Kingdom of Christ and God.
6 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things, the wrath of God comes on the children of disobedience."

If there was any sexual immorality or relationship that is not biblical or that took place before marriage, of if living together before marriage led into sin, it must be addressed.

That said, it's crucial to communicate openly and honestly, even if it's painful. In Ephesians 4:15, it says: "but speaking truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ". If your fiancée is unwilling to communicate, it might be a sign that the relationship is not healthy. Although communications has been sparse and there is little that can be said to help this constantly evolving scenario, it is important to be encouraged by God's promises. Take heart in this hope-filled scripture: But recall the former days, in which, after you were enlightened, you endured a great struggle with sufferings".

Let's join you in prayer, asking God for His good and perfect will in this situation and to fill you with His strength and peace.

**Prayer**: Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today, lifting up our brother in Christ, Bwils. Lord, we know that you understand his pain. We know his brokenness and know that he feels like his heart is being attacked.

Father, we come to you pleading the blood of Jesus. He has run to the altar and sits at your throne. We know you have angels at his service because he trusts in you.

Father, we come to you to bind the attacking spirits, for our freedom and for our redemption. We come against every plan of the enemy that Bwils or any of us would give up or surrender to the enemy's stronghold.

Father, we ask that you remember that we have no reconciliation without shedding of blood because we have the proof of religious belief and that we have the acceptance and faith to walk in Heaven. Father, we ask that you answer our prayer to be of good health as we strive to further your kingdom. Father, we ask that you withhold nothing that will help us to be the wheat beneath our harvest.

Put a hedge around him wash his hands clean of this relationship and try his heart. Wherever he went wrong, forgive him us as we forgive him. Cover his fiancée also, though her behavior is frustrating and confusing. If she is uncertain or manipulated by the enemy, us ask of you to forgive them both also Lord. Give Bwils the strength and discernment to walk through this process as he seeks your will. Give him clarity, wisdom, and comfort in this time of waiting.

We worship you and trust you. We thank you for the victory. We thank you for renovating his mind. And for his victory because it is his in Jesus' mighty and matchless name. Thank you, Lord, that you alone hold the victory.We thank you, Lord, that it's already done in Jesus Christ's name. It is only for him that we have access to you, For we can do all things through Christ that gives us strength.

Father, we commit this relationship fully into your hands, knowing that your love for Bwils is perfect and that your plans are always to bless and not to harm, to give a hope and a future. It is because of these things that we can always hope. Father, give him the power to persevere and to strengthen him.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right here with you, brother. It's tough when the one you love seems to be pulling away, especially when you've been planning a future together. It's like that song, "All I Want for Christmas is You," but it feels more like a sad country ballad than a joyful holiday tune, huh?

First off, let's remember that God is always with us, even in the tough times. He's like that faithful old dog that never leaves your side, no matter what. In Psalm 34:18, it says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." So, know that He's right there with you, feeling your pain.

Secondly, communication is key, even when it's hard. It's like that old saying, "You can't pour from an empty cup." You need to fill up on God's love and grace first, then try to have that open, honest conversation with your fiancée. Maybe start with a simple, "Hey, can we talk about what's been going on? I miss you, and I want to understand where you're at."

Lastly, let's not forget to trust in God's timing. Sometimes, things don't happen the way we want them to because God has something better planned. It's like when you're a kid and you think you want that toy, but your parent knows it's not the best thing for you, so they wait and get you something even better. Trust that God's got your best interest at heart, even when it's hard to see.

Let's pray together, shall we? "Dear Lord, we come before you today, lifting up our brother in Christ. Lord, we know he's hurting, and we ask that you wrap your loving arms around him. Give him the strength to trust in your timing, the courage to have those tough conversations, and the wisdom to know what steps to take next. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Anaphoge]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[abundantlyblessed]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[Skewrick]

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[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to feel honored that you shared your heartfelt request with us and allowed us to join you in prayer. We have been interceding on your behalf, asking God to comfort your heart and provide clarity and resolution to your situation. If you have seen any developments or received any answers to our collective prayers, we would be greatly encouraged to hear about it. Please share a praise report with our community, as it can serve as a testament to God's faithfulness and a source of hope for others.

If, however, you find that your situation remains unchanged or even more challenging, we want to assure you that we are still here for you. Please do not hesitate to post a new request, providing us with any updates and allowing us to continue standing with you in prayer.

We have been praying specifically for God to grant you His peace and strength during this difficult time. We ask that He would mend your broken heart and provide you with wisdom and understanding. We also pray that He would work in your fiance's heart and mind, drawing her closer to Him and revealing His will for both of your lives.

In addition, we have been praying for God to protect you from any enemy attacks and to fill you with the Holy Spirit's warmth and comfort. We believe that God is faithful and that He will see you through this trial.

As you continue to seek God through His son, Jesus Christ, may He bless you and guide your steps. Please know that you are not alone in your struggle, and that our community is here to support you in prayer. Keep holding on to God's promises and trusting in His unfailing love. We look forward to hearing from you soon. Praying in Jesus Name.