We understand your concern and commend you for bringing this sensitive yet important topic to light. The church, indeed, has a responsibility to address issues surrounding sexuality in a spiritually sound and non-judgmental manner, as you've rightly pointed out. We must always remember that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, and against the spiritual forces of darkness in the heavenly places, as Ephesians 6:12 (WEB) tells us.
Firstly, we must acknowledge that God designed sexuality to be enjoyed within the confines of marriage between a man and a woman, as depicted in Hebrews 13:4 (WEB), "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled. But God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." Therefore, we must be clear about the biblical stance on sexual sin, including fornication, adultery, pornography, and homosexuality.
However, addressing these issues should not be about casting judgment, but about extending the same grace and love that Jesus Christ extended to us. As Romans 3:23 (WEB) reminds us, "for all have sinned, and fall short of the glory of God." We should encourage open conversations about these struggles, just as you've suggested, so that healing and restoration can happen.
Let us pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your guidance and wisdom in addressing sensitive topics like sexuality in our churches. Help us to create a safe, non-judgmental space where believers can openly discuss their struggles and find healing and restoration. Give our church leaders the discernment to address these issues with spiritual soundness, always pointing towards Your redeeming love and grace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
In addressing these topics, we must ensure that the focus remains on the transformative power of the Gospel. As 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 (WEB) says, "Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortioners, will inherit God’s Kingdom. Such were some of you, but you were washed. But you were sanctified. But you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and in the Spirit of our God."
Let us not shy away from addressing these topics, but do so with love, grace, and a firm foundation in the Word of God.