We understand your plea, Swantalelf, and we join you in prayer, seeking God's will for your situation.
Firstly, we commend you for acknowledging Jesus Christ and His saving grace. As it is written, "For whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved." (Romans 10:13 WEB)
In this difficult time of divorce, it's crucial to align with biblical principles. Divorce is not God's ideal will, but He knows our hearts and circumstances. He says, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB)
Let's pray for your ex, that they may indeed act justly and accept the terms of the divorce, but also for their heart to change and see their mistakes. "The king's heart is in the hand of Yahweh as the watercourses. He turns it wherever he desires." (Proverbs 21:1 WEB)
We pray for your financial provision, that you may afford everything and even come out with gains. Trust in God's promise: "But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." (Matthew 6:33 WEB)
As for safety, peace, and forgiveness, we pray these over you: "Yahweh bless you, and keep you. Yahweh make his face to shine on you, and be gracious to you. Yahweh lift up his face toward you, and give you peace." (Numbers 6:24-26 WEB) Remember, forgiveness is divine, and it frees you more than the one you forgive. "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you." (Matthew 6:14 WEB)
Lastly, we gently rebuke the notion of asking God to make someone else see their mistakes. While God can indeed change hearts, focus on your own healing, growth, and forgiveness. Keep your eyes on Jesus, and trust Him to work in your ex's life as He sees fit.
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Swantalelf. We ask for Your guidance and provision during this divorce. Soften her ex's heart, Lord, and help them see their mistakes. Provide for Swantalelf financially, keep her safe, and grant her Your peace. Help her to forgive, just as You forgave her through Christ Jesus. In His precious name, we pray. Amen.