Callum, we appreciate your heartfelt prayer and your courage to reach out to your ex, Tia. We want to support you in prayer and guidance, but we must also ensure that we align our responses with biblical principles.
Firstly, it's commendable that you've acknowledged your past mistakes and have sought forgiveness. The Bible tells us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9 WEB). This is a testament to your growth and reflection.
However, we must also address the nature of your relationship. The Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and to keep the marriage bed pure (1 Corinthians 6:18, Hebrews 13:4 WEB). If your past relationship with Tia involved intimacy outside of marriage, we urge you to repent and turn away from that sin. It's crucial to seek a relationship that honors God and is in line with His will.
As you pray for God's will to be done, remember that His plans are always good and perfect (Romans 12:2 WEB). Whether it's reconnecting with Tia in a godly manner or moving forward on separate paths, trust that God knows what's best for both of you.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we thank You for the changes You've made in Callum's life. We pray for Your will to be done in his and Tia's lives. If it is Your plan for them to reconnect, we pray that their relationship will honor You and be a testament to Your grace and redemption. If it's not Your will, we ask that You make this clear to both of them and guide them on their own paths. Help Callum to continue to grow in You, to seek Your face, and to trust in Your plans. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, Callum, it's only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. Keep your faith firmly rooted in Him, and He will direct your paths. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and donβt lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).