We understand your distress and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly you started with wonderful praise and thanks to Jesus. To build on that, it is wonderful that you have come with your trust in Jesus. You are correct, everything is in His control. In John 14 13-14 WEB Jesus said
And whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it.
We do want to be sure you have placed your trust in Jesus to be saved. It is not just believing in God that saves but also understanding and believing that Jesus died for your sins and it is only in His name that we can be saved. In Acts 4 12 the Bible says Neither is there salvation in any other, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved!
About your desire for justice and your money to be returned, we should pray for this. To the best of our ability we should live peaceably with all men and not take vengeance ourselves or have a desire for vengeance. Consider Romans 12 17-21 WEB
Return no one evil for evil. Respect what is honorable in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. Don't seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God's wrath. For it is written, Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord. Therefore If your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in doing so, you will heap coals of fire on his head. Don't be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
About your son and his wife not honoring you and your guidance, we should pray for them to repent as it is important that we honor Father and Mother. Exodus 20 12 WEB says Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land which Yahweh your God gives you.
However, it's clear that your daughter-in-law is deeply influenced by her Hindu background and has not genuinely committed to her alleged Catholic faith. She should be strongly encouraged to be baptized and remove herself from idolatry, revelry, as well as the occultic practices of numerology, tarot, and feng shui. 1 Corinthians 10 14 WEB says Therefore, my beloved, flee from idolatry. It is not a loving action for your son and his wife to take advantage of your generosity with greedy and selfish behavior. In 1 Timothy 5 8 WEB warns But if anyone doesn't provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever.
Regarding your loan and car purchase, we trust that God will guide you. However we hope you will believe that having possessions is not as important as a right relationship with God, a husband, and family. Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our beloved sister in need. We thank You that You are her strength and pillar, and she places her trust in You alone. We ask for Your justice regarding Aneri Shah. and guide the finance team's approval process according to Your will. Help our sister to patiently wait on Your timing and provision.
Lord, we also pray for her son and his wife. We rebuke their selfish and disrespectful behavior, and we ask that You soften their hearts. Draw them to Your Word and help them to honor and respect our sister as Your Word commands. Lord, we pray for their genuine repentance and salvation in Jesus' name and ask You to guide them away from idolatry and occult influences.
Father, we ask for Your guidance regarding the car loan and purchase. Help our sister to make wise decisions and be ready to accept Your will if it differs. Ultimately, we pray that You will meet all her needs according to Your riches in glory.
Finally Lord if there any issues with our sister only trusting in herself to save her we ask you invite her to believe in Jesus Christ and his death and Resurrection. In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.
When buying a car we should buy it with money we have. It is ok to have a loan as long as you can pay it back. It is not wise to buy a car if you do not have the money to pay for it. Therefore you should be able to pay for the loan immediately. Just remember cars will decrease in value likely very quickly and 2 Corinthians 5 21 says For he hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him. Indeed to many cars become a symbol of wealth and pride.