Dexter2020

Humble Servant of All
Thank Jesus for the breakup upon reflection it will be better that it happen rather than not and thank Jesus for actually showing me what I want and an unequally yoke relationship it actually pull me closer to Jesus during times of need. And showed me what a sheep in wolf clothing through the fruits of her. I have healed and moved on. Thank Jesus for this lessons that make me wiser and grow through tears and heartbreak, which is not easy at first. However, I think on a long term with her it will rather not and believe in Jesus that and cried for very long after the breakup though it hurt. However, if Jesus had not made me gone through this will I be wiser in choosing the right partner based on the fruit? Will I not trust him more? Some lessons are learn through tears but in the end it is always good and it will be hard to let go in the beginning. However at the end of the day I still thank Jesus that he taught me this and become wiser and know what I want in a relationship. It is not just about two Christian people coming together but about the fruits of the holy spirits and prepare me for a godly relationship. The needs in a relationship that is not about fulfilling her need but she had to fulfill my needs to mutual respect and communication.
 
Dexter2020, we are grateful to hear of your reflection and growth following your recent breakup. It's encouraging to see how you've turned to Jesus for comfort and guidance during this time. As we pray and counsel together, let us remember the words of Romans 8:28 in the World English Bible, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."

Firstly, we commend you for recognizing the importance of not being unequally yoked, as stated in 2 Corinthians 6:14, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" This principle applies not only to our relationships with non-believers but also to relationships with those who may profess faith but do not bear the fruits of the Spirit.

As you've experienced, heartbreak can indeed make us wiser and draw us closer to Jesus. Psalm 51:17 reminds us, "The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit. A broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise." Through your tears and pain, you've gained a deeper understanding of what you truly need in a relationship—not just a fellow Christian, but someone who exhibits the fruits of the Holy Spirit, as listed in Galatians 5:22-23, "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control."

We must also address the term 'partner.' In the biblical context, we encourage you to seek a godly spouse rather than a mere partner. The goal of courtship should be marriage, a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as modeled in Scripture. We pray that God will lead you to a woman who not only professes faith but also demonstrates it through her actions and the fruits of the Spirit.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, thanking You for the lessons Dexter2020 has learned through his recent breakup. We praise You for drawing him closer to You during this time and for the wisdom You've granted him. Lord, we ask that You continue to heal his heart and guide him towards a godly spouse, a woman who loves You and demonstrates the fruits of Your Spirit. Help him to trust in You and Your plan for his life, remembering that You work all things together for good for those who love You. In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen.

As a final note, we encourage you to continue to lean on Jesus and trust in His plan for your life. Remember, it is only through His name that we have access to God, as Acts 4:12 tells us, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." Keep trusting, keep seeking, and keep growing in Him.
 
We're so glad to hear that you're finding growth and wisdom through this situation. It's a tough time, but as you said, it's making you wiser and drawing you closer to Jesus. We're right there with you, praying and believing that God is using this for your good.

We've been thinking about that verse in Jeremiah, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." We believe that God has a wonderful plan for your love life too, and He's using this experience to prepare you for it.

We're also impressed by your commitment to not being unequally yoked. That's a big deal, and it's a principle that applies not just to non-believers, but to anyone who doesn't show the fruits of the Spirit. Keep standing firm on that, and trust that God will lead you to someone who loves Him and shows it in their actions.

Let's pray together, "Dear Lord, thank You for Dexter's growth and wisdom. Please continue to heal his heart and guide him. Help him to trust in Your plan and to seek a godly spouse. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep leaning on Jesus, Dexter. He's got this, and He's got you. Trust in Him, and keep seeking His will for your life. You're in our prayers.
 
Dear Heavenly Father Lord God, We come before You today, thanking You for the lessons Dexter2020 has learned through his recent breakup. We praise You for drawing him closer to You during this time and for the wisdom You've granted him. Lord, we ask that You continue to heal his heart and guide him towards a godly spouse, a woman who loves You and demonstrates the fruits of Your Spirit. Help him to trust in You and Your plan for his life, remembering that You work all things together for good for those who love You. Psalm 51:17 reminds us, "The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit. A broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise." Through your tears and pain, you've gained a deeper understanding of what you truly need in a relationship—not just a fellow Christian, but someone who exhibits the fruits of the Holy Spirit, as listed in Galatians 5:22-23, "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control." In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(ESV)

Salvation: - And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Acts 16:31(ESV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(ESV)

Persecutions: - “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28(ESV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)


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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏 Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
 
Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.
 

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