Take the evil away and mend our hearts

[Meewen]

I feel lost. Everything something good happens for me, it seems like evil wants to strike. I recently found a friend that helped me through some really tough struggles. I gave him the wrong impression that I wanted a full relationship with him. I don't I'm not ready for that and neither is he. He is struggling with a bad divorce right now and a lot of loved ones and friends have betrayed him. So last Wednesday one of the evils showed up at my work. He is a regular customer and I had no idea he had evil intentions. He stated he worked on the solar fields and I stated I have a friend that worked on them. He knew who I was talking about and I made the comment that Derrick p had helped me through a lot of difficult times over the last couple of months and would do anything for anybody he has a heart of gold. Only personal thing that was said. I joked around with Darrell (evil) and said goodbye. He then went to his vehicle and called Derrivk and told him that i was in love with him and said we were in a full blown relationship. None of that was true. Because of all the betrayal in Derrick's life he has assumed this is true and I did not care about his needs for the divorce and has not spoke to me since. I did tell him that Darrell was lying and have gave him time. My heart is broke. I need prayers that Derrick can let go of the evil in his life and will trust me again. I felt a connection like no other with him and that's why I never pushed him on everything. The day before he went from Maryland back to North Carolina he told me I was his angel and unicorn. I have not changed. Darrell manipulated him and I feel horrible about it. Please help!

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're feeling lost and heartbroken, Meewen, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance.

Firstly, let his remind you to whom you should pray. Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. John 14:6 WEB

Firstly, know God's will for your life as His follower:
1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEB
For this is the will of God, your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don’t know God.
Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is. Don't quickly rush into a intimate relationships, but understand God's will for your life.
And now abideth faith, hope, love, these three; and the greatest of these is love.
1 Corinthians 13:13 WEB
Colossians 3:12-14 WEB
Put on therefore, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, humility, and perseverance; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do. Above all these things, walk in love, which is the bond of perfection.

There are a number of areas that you need to be praying for and examining when you speak of Derrick.

You believe you gave him the wrong impression that you wanted a full relationship. You said you are not ready and neither is he.

He is in a divorce but no mention of a Biblical doctrine of divorce being met. If it is not for adultery or possibly his spouse has left him and is not willing to live with him this divorce should come to an end and he should be encouraged to oppose it.

Next while he is in this divorce episode you have already confessed your possible romantic feelings for him. He has already told you he sees you as an angel and a unicorn. Angels of God in the Bible are not described as having any romantic feelings. Unicorns go deep into myth and fantasy. While this sounds wonderful you need to examine your own motives. You need to see if you are confusing the strong emotional pain he has of a divorce for a need for help.

We are in still in a position of receiving the Bible's definition of adultery. Technically they are one until a divorce has happened and living with another man may be an act that may not be Biblically appropriate at this time. In Matthew 5:32 WEB But I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries her when she is divorced commits adultery.

Also observe Deuteronomy 24:1-4 WEB
When a man takes a wife and marries her, then it shall be, if she finds no favor in his eyes, because he has found some unseemly thing in her, that he shall write her a bill of divorce, put it in her hand, and send her out of his house. When she has departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife. If the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorce, put it in her hand, and send her out of his house; or if the latter husband die, who took her to be his wife; her former husband who sent her away may not take her again to be his wife after that she is defiled; for that is abomination before Yahweh: and you shall not cause the land to sin, which Yahweh your God gives you for an inheritance.

You should pray for Derrick about the spirit of betrayal. The situation in which he sees you as an angel and a unicorn may be a symptom of the betrayal. This does not mean you are an angel or unicorn spirit but that you see their hearts fantasized through a cracked heart and pieces are laying all around.

He should also be prayed for about how quickly he can give up. He remains in unbelief that you committed a betrayal towards him which you deny.

As a relationship prayer that started as needing help from a non-Christian he may be the main need for 'the evil' to be removed.
1 Corinthians 6:14 - Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?

We are not specifically told he is a Christian. For the husband who doesnt believe 1 Corinthians 7:14 WEB
For the unbelieving husband is sanctified in the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified in the husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy.
Even if the non-Christian testifies for Jesus Christ they are not sanctified in Christ. Consider this carefully before considering marriage.

You must pray for his truthfulness and check whether he gave an accurate situation of his divorce. Deuteronomy 19:18 tells us The judges shall make diligent inquisition; and, behold, if it be true, and the thing certain, that such abomination is wrought in Israel, then shalt thou bring forth that man or that woman, who hath done this evil thing, unto thy gates, even that man or that woman, and shalt stone them with stones, and they shall die.

Please remember to continually pray for God's will in this situation and note the relationship in the Bible whether from a father to a son or daughter or Christian brothers and sisters whose Father is God has the pattern of training, teaching, nurturing, and respecting each other.

Father, in Jesus' name. We come to You with heavy hearts, lifting up Meewen and Derrick. We pray for the evil to be removed from Derrick's life and for his heart to be mended and restored.

Father, restore the trust between Meewen and Derrick. Guide them both through this difficult time, and help them to seek You first in all their decisions. Surround Meewen with Your peace and comfort.

God if Derrick is not saved and has not believed in Jesus Christ please convict him that you love him and sent Jesus Christ to die on the cross for him and he can have eternal life if he believes in his heart and confess with his mouth that Jesus is Lord.

Lord, we pray for Your will to be done in Meewen's life and Derrick's life.

Father please convict us of things we need to repent from in Jesus name. We believe our prayer will be a sweet-smelling savor when we pray by the name of Jesus and we thank him for his sacrifice that brought us to you. In Jesus Name we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear Meewen,

We're here with you, feeling your pain and confusion. Here's what's on our hearts for you:

First, remember who you are in Christ. You're a child of God, loved unconditionally. Trust that He's got you, even in this mess.

Next, let's pray for Derrick. He's hurting, and that's affecting his perspective. Let's ask God to heal his heart, bring clarity to his mind, and help him trust again. We also need to pray that he'd be open to the truth, whatever that may be.

Meewen, you've been honest about your feelings, and that's good. But let's make sure we're not confusing compassion with romantic feelings. Let's pray for God to give you wisdom and discernment in this.

Lastly, let's trust that God is in control. He can turn even this around for good (Romans 8:28). Let's keep praying, keep trusting, and keep loving, just as He loves us.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Ginyteros]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Wernad]

Heavenly Father,
We come before You with heavy hearts on behalf of this child of Yours who feels lost and heartbroken. They have shown love, care, and kindness to someone they deeply cherish, only to see that bond tested by misunderstanding and manipulation. Lord, we ask for Your intervention in this situation, knowing that You are the God of truth, healing, and restoration.


Lord, Your Word says, “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18). Draw near to this person now. Comfort them in their distress and remind them that You are with them, even in the midst of confusion and pain. Let Your presence fill them with peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).


Father, we pray for Derrick. You know his heart and the wounds he carries from betrayal and hardship. We ask that You heal him, Lord, and surround him with Your love. Remove any seeds of doubt, bitterness, or mistrust planted by others. Your Word declares, “No weapon formed against you shall prosper” (Isaiah 54:17), and we ask You to protect Derrick from the schemes of evil. Break the power of deception over his life and restore his ability to trust and discern the truth.


Lord, bring clarity and wisdom to both hearts involved in this relationship. Where there has been confusion and misunderstanding, we ask for light and reconciliation. Your Word says, “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you” (Ephesians 4:32). Help Derrick to see the truth of this person’s intentions and to let go of any misunderstandings or hurt.


Father, we also pray for the one who caused harm, knowingly or unknowingly. Soften Darrell’s heart and bring conviction where needed. Transform his actions to reflect goodness and truth, for Your Word reminds us, “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good” (Romans 12:21).


Finally, Lord, we ask for renewed strength and faith for this child of Yours. Remind them of Your promises, that “those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength” (Isaiah 40:31). Help them to rest in Your timing and trust Your plans, for You work all things together for the good of those who love You (Romans 8:28).


In Jesus’ name, we pray for healing, trust, and the restoration of a bond that reflects Your love and grace. Let Your will be done in their lives, and may Your peace reign in their hearts.


Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear friend, and we are truly honored that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you. We have been fervently praying for the evil to be removed from your life and for God to mend your hearts. We hope that you have seen God's hand at work in your situation and that you will share a praise report with us.

If you have not yet seen the answer to your prayers, we want to encourage you to post an update. We are here to continue praying with you and for you. We pray that God will help Derrick to let go of the evil in his life and to trust you again. We ask God to restore the connection you both felt and to guide you both through this difficult time. We also pray that God will comfort you both as you deal with the hurt and pain. God will fight your battles and justice will be done.

Remember, we are all God's children, and He wants the best for us. Even when things seem bleak, we know that God is working behind the scenes. Stay strong in your faith and keep seeking God through His son, Jesus Christ. He will never leave you nor forsake you.

Continue to lift up your concerns to God. We have prayed for you Psalms 34:17 The righteous cry out and the Lord hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles. May God bless you.