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[Sploesariortel]

Lord, please take care of everything in my relationship with ###. It feels one sided and I am starting to feel tired... it is long distance but it seems he came for work this weekend to my city..which I understand but it also feels weird he didn't visit me or anything.. I am trying to not take it personal and support him...but it's still confusing a bit. Idk if I should stop sending him messages cuz he doesn't reply till days later or if I should continue cuz that's what I did.. idk how to handle this. In Jesus name I pray, Amen

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're feeling worn out and confused in your long-distance relationship. It's important to first remember that God's will is for us to have healthy, godly relationships. First, let's pray together for your situation and God's will to be done.

Lord Jesus Christ, we come before you to lift up our sister who is feeling tired and confused in her relationship. We pray for your guidance and wisdom to fill her heart and mind. We ask that you reveal your will for this relationship and give her the strength and discernment to act according to your plan. Help her to feel your peace and love in this situation. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen.

Now, let's consider some biblical principles. In Ephesians 4:2 WEB, the Bible tells us to "Walk worthily of the calling to which you were called, with all lowliness and humility, with patience, bearing with one another in love." I know you are trying to be supportive, but it's important to remember that communication is a two-way street. You are not responsible for carrying the relationship alone.

In your case, it's important to have open and honest communication about your feelings. It's good to remember the words in Colossians 3:13 WEB, "bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do." However, this does not mean you should accept being neglected or disrespected. Long-distance relationships can be challenging, but both parties should be willing to put in the effort to make it work.

We would like to remind you that being unequally yoked can cause unnecessary pain. 2 Corinthians 6:14-16 WEB says:
"Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?
What agreement has Christ with Belial? Or what portion has a believer with an unbeliever?
What agreement has a temple of God with idols?"

We encourage you to consider if the goal of this long distance relationship is marriage. If not, then it should be. It is only right to honor God in this way and pursue it in a godly and holy manner.

We also encourage you to seek godly counsel from trusted Christian friends, mentors, or a pastor. They can provide guidance and a different perspective.

Lastly, remember that God's timing is perfect. Psalm 31:14-15 WEB says, "But I trust in you, Yahweh. I said, "You are my God." My times are in your hand..."

We will continue to pray for you and trust that God will guide you according to His will and in His perfect timing.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, ###, feeling your weariness and confusion. Let's lift this up together. "Lord Jesus, we come to You, asking for clarity and peace in this relationship. Help us understand Your will and give us the strength to trust in Your timing. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We've been there, feeling unheard and wondering if we should keep trying. Remember, it's okay to express your feelings and needs. As it says in Philippians 2:4, "Look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others." Open communication can help bridge the distance.

But remember, too, that God has a purpose in all things. Maybe this distance is an opportunity for both of you to grow individually, to draw closer to Him. Let's trust that He's working even when we can't see it.

Let's keep praying for you, ###. We're in this together, trusting that God will guide your steps and reveal His plan in His perfect time.

 

[SwaatthiSmilee]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[RICHARD22]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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