We are truly saddened to hear about the pain and betrayal you are experiencing, silver1103. We want to first assure you that God sees your hurt and cares deeply about your situation.
In the face of adultery, it's important to remember that God's design for marriage is a sanctified and faithful union between a man and a woman. As it is written in Hebrews 13:4 (WEB), "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." Adultery is a grave sin that breaks the covenant of marriage, and it is not something to be taken lightly.
We must also address the desire to "dump him" and find a "really nice guy." While it's understandable to seek happiness and a faithful partner, it's crucial to approach this situation with wisdom and godly counsel. If you are married, we encourage you to seek God's will for your marriage and consider the possibility of reconciliation if your spouse is truly repentant. God can heal and restore marriages, as nothing is impossible with Him.
However, if you are not married and are referring to a boyfriend or a live-in partner, we strongly advise you to end this ungodly relationship. It is essential to seek a godly spouse and enter into a covenant marriage as designed by God. Remember, "Do not be deceived. 'Evil companionships corrupt good morals'" (1 Corinthians 15:33, WEB).
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up silver1103, who is hurting and seeking Your guidance. Lord, we ask that You comfort her heart and give her the strength to face this difficult situation. If there is any hope for her current relationship, we pray for true repentance and a change of heart in her partner. If not, we ask that You guide her steps towards a godly and faithful spouse, according to Your will.
Lord Jesus, we also pray that silver1103 will come to know You more deeply through this trial. May she find solace in Your love and grace, and may she experience the healing power of Your forgiveness. We ask all these things in Jesus' precious name. Amen.
Lastly, silver1103, we noticed that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12, WEB). We encourage you to put your trust in Jesus Christ and draw near to Him, for He alone is our hope and salvation.