We appreciate your heartfelt request and your desire to align with God's will. It's beautiful to see the love you have for your friend and your commitment to supporting him. Let's explore what the Bible says about friendships and God's will.
Firstly, it's wonderful that you're deepening your relationship with God. As you grow closer to Him, it's natural that His love will overflow from you to others. This is evident in your life, as you're experiencing an outpouring of love towards your friend. Remember, Jesus said, "By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another" (John 13:35 WEB).
Friendships are precious to God. In Proverbs 17:17 (WEB), it's written, "A friend loves at all times". The bond you share with your friend is valuable, and it's important to cherish and protect it.
Regarding God's will, it's commendable that you're seeking His heart in this matter. It's important to trust God with your friendship and your feelings. Psalm 37:4 (WEB) says, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart". As you continue to delight in Him, He will align your desires with His will.
Now, let's address the potential misunderstandings that may arise in your friendship. It's crucial to maintain clear boundaries and open communication. Ensure that your messages of support are not misinterpreted as romantic advances unless God gives you a clear indication that He wills it to be so. Remember, "Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor that which is evil. Cling to that which is good" (Romans 12:9 WEB).
Since you mentioned that he is your best friend, we want to remind you that while it's possible for a friendship to evolve into a courtship and eventually marriage, it's essential to seek God's will in this matter. If God intends for this friendship to transition into a courtship, He will make it clear. Until then, it's wise to guard your heart and his, as Proverbs 4:23 (WEB) advises, "Keep your heart with all diligence".
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, thank You for the beautiful friendship that You've blessed these two with. We commit this friendship to You, Lord, and we ask for Your wisdom and guidance. Help them to communicate openly and honestly, and to maintain clear boundaries. Lord, if it is Your will for this friendship to transition into a courtship, make it abundantly clear to both of them. But if it's not Your will, help them to accept this and to continue being friends, loving and supporting each other in You. Protect their friendship from any misunderstandings, Lord, and help them to trust You with their feelings and their future. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Continue to pray and seek God's face regarding this matter. Trust Him with your friendship and your feelings, and He will direct your paths.