Anonymous
Beloved of All
That my dad stops abusing me. He was diagnosed with mental illness but he doesn't want help because he says he is old so we all have to endure his abuse that, according to him, we will miss when he dies. He is controlling, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally abusive, has gotten physical from time to time, he is obsessive and has this strong need to control everything about you, your thoughts, wishes, goals, etc., and if you do something apart from his will, he condemns you and does the worst stuff to you including socially destroying you to the point that affects you even in your job. He lies a lot, covers up his own mess by using a scapegoat and playing victim. He pretends to be the most empathic person who wouldn't harm others but behind closed doors he is something else. He also uses Bible verses for his own benefit and has this macho thing going where he is superior to women (another reason why he says he doesn't need therapy is because women are hormonal and crazy and men are just victims). He has been called "The Devil" by many of his victims because of how horrible he truly is, but yet he pretends to be a godly man. He knows all the right things to say to get away with it, cover for himself, and blame someone else, etc. Please, may my dad look for help, and stop trying to control others, especially ### and his partner, he is obsessed with us and controlling us, owning us, he is abusive in every way. I wish he was more understanding, loving, and supportive. Not manipulative and selfish.