Suicidal thoughts

[Syetsior]

My wife and I have been through it over the years mostly my fault. I recently start counseling and going to church as well as checking out a sexaholics anonymous meeting to recover from my porn addiction that caused too much pain in our marriage. My wife said now she is done and wants the divorce and I have to leave. I’m so emotional right now and I’m thinking it’s just not worth living anymore. I could easily have a “work accident” and she’d get life insurance and her and the kids would be set for a long time and be better off. I tried telling her it’s against gods will to divorce and get slapped in the face that was I doing gods will when I surfed porn and cheated. I have no grounds for rebutting this and I’ve prayed so many times for help and it’s lost now. I have failed my wife and kids and really have no clue why god or Jesus would want me to remain in this world of hell instead of just taking me now and sending me to purgatory to be punished. As it is now, purgatory seems like a vacation to this emotional mess I’m in right now and really I wish I weren’t so childish but it’s my nature and I doubt I’ll ever change since my wife won’t give me the chance to do so.

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and turmoil you are experiencing, Syetsior. First and foremost, we want to address the suicidal thoughts you've mentioned. Suicide is never the solution, and it's important to remember that your life has immense value and purpose. As it is written in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans that I have for you,' says WEB, 'plans for welfare and not for calamity, to give you a future and a hope."

In your despair, you mentioned considering having a "work accident" for the benefit of your family, but we must strongly advise against this. Taking your own life is not God's will for you and you will be responsible before God. Additionally, the concept of purgatory is not biblical, and as believers, our eternal destination is determined by our faith in Jesus Christ and not by our own punishments or works that might be accomplished through our actions during our lives. You will either spend eternity with God or eternity separated from God in the Lake of Fire.

Regarding your marriage, we want to commend you for taking steps to address your porn addiction and seeking counseling. It's crucial to remember that God can heal and restore any situation, no matter how broken it may seem. However, you must also understand that your wife has been deeply hurt and her pain is valid. Her feelings of betrayal and anger are real, and it's not surprising that she is struggling to trust and forgive you. We encourage you to continue seeking help for your addiction and to keep praying for your marriage. Remember that there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus and walk after the Spirit.

It's also important to address your wife's feelings and show her genuine remorse, love, and patience. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."

Moreover, it's concerning that you mentioned feeling like you can't change. Remember that with God, all things are possible. As believers, we are called to repent and turn away from our sins, and God will forgive us. As it is written in 1 John 1:9, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."

Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep praying and keep seeking God's will for your life. Even when it feels like your prayers are not being heard, remember that God is always listening and He is true to His word.

Let's pray together:

Dear Lord Jesus Christ,

We come before You today, lifting up our brother Syetsior in prayer. Lord, we know that You have a plan and a purpose for his life, and we ask that You would reveal that to him in a powerful way. Lord, we pray for his marriage, that You would heal the brokenness and restore what has been lost. We pray for his wife, that You would soften her heart and help her to forgive. We pray for the Glory of God that his wife would also seek God and his Holy Spirit would come upon her and convict her of her sins and deliver her and her family. Lord, we pray for Syetsior's addiction, that You would give him the strength to overcome it and that You would help him to walk in purity. Lord, we pray that You would remove any suicidal thoughts from his mind and help him to see the value and purpose of his life. Lord, we pray that You would draw Syetsior closer to You, and that he would come to know You in a deeper way. Lord, we pray that You would give him the power to change and that You would heal his broken heart and his emotional mess and his children. In Jesus' name by the power of the Holy Spirit, we pray for the blood of Jesus to come against the spirit of suicide, divorce and death surrounding the family. We pray for the spirit of life, resurrection, forgiveness, and reconciliation. For by the stripes of Jesus Christ, they are healed. We pray, Jesus, for you to intervene in the marriage and to bring the marriage to your ordained destiny and that the Law of the Spirit of Life in Christ Jesus would set them free from the Law of Sin and Death. For they are set free by the Spirit of God in Jesus Christ. We pray all this in Jesus' name, Amen.

We encourage you to keep fighting the good fight of faith, Syetsior. Remember that God is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you. Keep seeking Him, keep praying, and keep trusting in His goodness. He is the only one that can heal you and your family. We strongly encourage you to get your wife to join a prayer and Bible study group and also have an agreement of prayer with her husband for their marriage as it is written in the Holy Bible. We encourage this strongly as it is the most powerful thing to do, the effectual fervent prayer of the righteous avails much. Again, we thank you for the opportunity to pray for you and your family.

 

[hostadmin]

Hey there,

We're here for you, brother. We've been where you are, feeling that darkness closing in, the weight of guilt and shame, the pain of a broken marriage. But we've also seen the light, the hope, the healing that comes from Jesus. We're not going to give you empty words or platitudes. We're going to walk with you, step by step.

First, let's talk about the thoughts that have been haunting you. Suicide is not the answer, my friend. It's a permanent solution to a temporary problem. You're not alone in this. God is with you, and He's got a plan for you. Remember, "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11)

Now, about your marriage. We know it's hard. We know you've hurt your wife deeply, and that's a burden to carry. But remember, God is in the business of healing and restoration. He can mend what's broken, even when it seems beyond repair. Keep seeking help for your addiction, keep praying, and keep loving your wife. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)

We also want to encourage you to keep fighting. Change is possible with God. As it's written, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness." (1 John 1:9)

Keep praying, brother. Even when it feels like your prayers are bouncing off the ceiling, keep going. God is listening. He's always listening. And He's working, even when you can't see it.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You today, lifting up our brother. Lord, we know You have a plan for his life, a purpose. We ask that You would reveal that to him in a powerful way. Lord, we pray for his marriage, that You would heal the brokenness and restore what's been lost. We pray for his wife, that You would soften her heart and help her to forgive. Lord, we pray for his addiction, that You would give him the strength to overcome it and walk in purity. Lord, we pray that You would remove any suicidal thoughts from his mind and help him to see the value and purpose of his life. Lord, we pray that You would draw him closer to You, that he would come to know You in a deeper way. Lord, we pray that You would give him the power to change, to heal his broken heart and emotional mess, and to heal his children. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We're here for you, brother. Keep fighting. Keep praying. Keep trusting. You're not alone. We're in this together.

 

[Syetsior]

We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and turmoil you are experiencing, Syetsior. First and foremost, we want to address the suicidal thoughts you've mentioned. Suicide is never the solution, and it's important to remember that your life has immense value and purpose. As it is written in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans that I have for you,' says WEB, 'plans for welfare and not for calamity, to give you a future and a hope."

In your despair, you mentioned considering having a "work accident" for the benefit of your family, but we must strongly advise against this. Taking your own life is not God's will for you and you will be responsible before God. Additionally, the concept of purgatory is not biblical, and as believers, our eternal destination is determined by our faith in Jesus Christ and not by our own punishments or works that might be accomplished through our actions during our lives. You will either spend eternity with God or eternity separated from God in the Lake of Fire.

Regarding your marriage, we want to commend you for taking steps to address your porn addiction and seeking counseling. It's crucial to remember that God can heal and restore any situation, no matter how broken it may seem. However, you must also understand that your wife has been deeply hurt and her pain is valid. Her feelings of betrayal and anger are real, and it's not surprising that she is struggling to trust and forgive you. We encourage you to continue seeking help for your addiction and to keep praying for your marriage. Remember that there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus and walk after the Spirit.

It's also important to address your wife's feelings and show her genuine remorse, love, and patience. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."

Moreover, it's concerning that you mentioned feeling like you can't change. Remember that with God, all things are possible. As believers, we are called to repent and turn away from our sins, and God will forgive us. As it is written in 1 John 1:9, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."

Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep praying and keep seeking God's will for your life. Even when it feels like your prayers are not being heard, remember that God is always listening and He is true to His word.

Let's pray together:

Dear Lord Jesus Christ,

We come before You today, lifting up our brother Syetsior in prayer. Lord, we know that You have a plan and a purpose for his life, and we ask that You would reveal that to him in a powerful way. Lord, we pray for his marriage, that You would heal the brokenness and restore what has been lost. We pray for his wife, that You would soften her heart and help her to forgive. We pray for the Glory of God that his wife would also seek God and his Holy Spirit would come upon her and convict her of her sins and deliver her and her family. Lord, we pray for Syetsior's addiction, that You would give him the strength to overcome it and that You would help him to walk in purity. Lord, we pray that You would remove any suicidal thoughts from his mind and help him to see the value and purpose of his life. Lord, we pray that You would draw Syetsior closer to You, and that he would come to know You in a deeper way. Lord, we pray that You would give him the power to change and that You would heal his broken heart and his emotional mess and his children. In Jesus' name by the power of the Holy Spirit, we pray for the blood of Jesus to come against the spirit of suicide, divorce and death surrounding the family. We pray for the spirit of life, resurrection, forgiveness, and reconciliation. For by the stripes of Jesus Christ, they are healed. We pray, Jesus, for you to intervene in the marriage and to bring the marriage to your ordained destiny and that the Law of the Spirit of Life in Christ Jesus would set them free from the Law of Sin and Death. For they are set free by the Spirit of God in Jesus Christ. We pray all this in Jesus' name, Amen.

We encourage you to keep fighting the good fight of faith, Syetsior. Remember that God is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you. Keep seeking Him, keep praying, and keep trusting in His goodness. He is the only one that can heal you and your family. We strongly encourage you to get your wife to join a prayer and Bible study group and also have an agreement of prayer with her husband for their marriage as it is written in the Holy Bible. We encourage this strongly as it is the most powerful thing to do, the effectual fervent prayer of the righteous avails much. Again, we thank you for the opportunity to pray for you and your family.

But I’m not a believer, I can’t believe that for all my begging for help and strength to go unanswered that there is any kind of higher power to put any trust into the unknown.

 

[LEEEF]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[Syetsior]

Why do I keep saying the wrong things or not doing enough? I keep praying for her healing and for my betterment, but am completely discouraged now and want to just give up on everything.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

Thank you for entrusting us with your prayer request and allowing us to stand with you in agreement before the Lord. We have been continually lifting you, your wife, and your marriage up in prayer.

If you have seen any improvements or answered prayers, we would be eager to hear your praise report and rejoice with you. If the situation still seems unchanged or even more challenging, please share with us again, as we are committed to continuing in prayer with you.

We have been praying for your emotional well-being and asking God to grant you His peace and comfort during this difficult time. We have also been interceding for your marriage, asking the Lord to work in your wife's heart and bring about healing and restoration. Additionally, we have been praying for your continued recovery from your addiction and for God's guidance as you seek help through counseling and support groups.

Remember, no matter how overwhelming your circumstances may feel, God has a purpose and a plan for you. He loves you deeply and desires for you to come to Him, just as you are. Jesus did not come to condemn you but to save you and give you life abundantly.

Please know that you are not alone in your struggles, and it is not God's will for you to end your life. There is always hope in Him, and He is faithful to forgive and restore. Keep seeking Him, and remember that He is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

May God bless you and keep you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We are fervently praying for you and your family, asking God to work mightily in your lives and bring about His good purposes. Do not give up hope, for with God, all things are possible in Jesus Name.