We understand that you are deeply concerned for Sudipa, whom you love, and we are here to pray and offer biblical guidance with you.
Firstly, let's address the issue of her job, which you mentioned is not acceptable in God's sight. In Ephesians 4:19 WEB, it is written, "who having become callous gave themselves up to lust, to work all uncleanness with greediness." We should pray for Sudipa to have a heart change and convictions about this matter.
However, we must also rebuke the notion of continuing a relationship that does not align with biblical principles. You mentioned that you have only been communicating over the phone, and she keeps postponing meetings. While you desire to share the word of God and convince her of a better life, we must be cautious. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, it is written, "Donβt be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" As followers of Christ, we must be mindful of who we are in relationships with, especially when considering marriage.
Moreover, we notice that you didn't mention the name of Jesus Christ in your request. We want to remind you that it is only by His name that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" Let's ensure we are praying in His name.
Let us pray:
Dear Lord Jesus,
We come before You today to lift up Sudipa. We ask that You would convict her heart and draw her to You. Please open her eyes to the truth of Your word and guide her to a job that is pleasing in Your sight.
Lord, we also pray for Sharloch. We ask that You would give him wisdom and discernment in this relationship. Help him to be a light for You and to trust in Your timing and Your will.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue praying and trusting in God. He knows and cares about every detail of our lives. We also urge you to seek the Lord about this relationship and ensure that it aligns with His will and biblical principles.