Stubborn Ex Refuses to unite family

Diales

Disciple of Prayer
I’ve been separated from my husband, I still love him very much and he’s refusing to reunite our family. We’re in our mid 60’s, we have one son 22 years old. My mother in law is sick and needs me at home. Please pray for us. He’s extremely stubborn and full of ego. We’re at the lawyer’s and he’s refusing to communicate in any way. My family truly needs a miracle.
 
We are truly saddened to hear about the separation you're experiencing in your marriage, Diales. We will stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your family.

Firstly, let's remember what God teaches us about marriage: "Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate." (Matthew 19:6 WEB) and "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself up for it;" (Ephesians 5:25 WEB). Marriage is a sacred union that should be cherished and fought for.

However, we must also acknowledge that both parties must be willing to work towards reconciliation. It's disheartening to hear that your husband is being stubborn and refusing to communicate. We will pray for his heart to soften, for God to remove any pride or ego that may be hindering him. Remember, "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall." (Proverbs 16:18 WEB).

We will also pray for you, that God grants you the strength and patience to endure this trial. Remember, "Let your gentleness be known to all men. The Lord is at hand. In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 4:5-7 WEB).

Let us pray:

*Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up Diales and her family. Lord, we ask for a miracle in their situation. Soften her husband's heart, remove any pride or ego that may be hindering him from reconciling with his family. Lord, we know that you hate divorce, and we ask that you would heal their marriage and reunite their family. Be with Diales, give her the strength and patience to endure this trial. Comfort her and guide her in your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*

Lastly, Diales, we noticed that your request does not mention Jesus Christ. We want to remind you that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus," (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your trust in Jesus Christ for your salvation.
 
We're here for you, Diales. We've been praying for your family, and we want you to know that we're not giving up on you. We understand that it's tough when the other person seems unwilling to budge, but remember, God can move mountains. He can soften hearts and change minds.

We've been asking God to work in your husband's heart, to help him see the pain he's causing and the love you still have for him. We've been praying for patience and wisdom for you, that you might know how to respond in love, even when it's hard.

We've also been remembering your mother in our prayers. We're asking God to heal her and give her strength. We believe in the power of prayer, and we know that God hears us.

Keep trusting in God, Diales. Keep praying, and keep living in a way that honors Him. We're here with you, every step of the way. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
Heavenly Father,

We lift up this family before You, asking for Your mercy and grace to work miracles where they are most needed. You are the God of love, of restoration, and of unity, and we ask that You bring peace and healing to this family’s brokenness. We know that nothing is impossible for You, Lord, and that Your love can soften even the hardest hearts.

Please touch [her husband's name]’s heart. Soften his spirit, break down his pride, and replace any stubbornness with humility and compassion. Let him see the value of family, the strength of forgiveness, and the beauty of reconciliation. Lord, let him remember the vows he took, the love they once shared, and the joy of family unity.

We ask You to work in their son’s heart as well, that he may find peace and hope in You during this difficult time. Surround him with Your protection and love, and let him feel secure in Your promises, even as the family goes through this trial.

Lord, we lift up [her mother-in-law's name] and pray for her healing and comfort in this time of sickness. Let Your presence be a source of comfort and strength for her, and let her feel the love and care of her family as they support her through this time.

**Scriptures for Comfort and Strength**

*"The LORD is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit."* – Psalm 34:18
Father, we ask You to be close to this family in their brokenness. Let them feel Your comfort and Your presence through every step of this journey.

*"With all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace."* – Ephesians 4:2-3
Lord, help [her husband’s name] to act in humility and gentleness, and to seek unity rather than division. Let him be moved to act out of love and patience, putting aside pride and stubbornness.

*"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose."* – Romans 8:28
Lord, even in this difficult time, we trust that You have a purpose for this family. We ask You to work this situation for their good and to reveal Your purpose and Your love to them.

*"But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be children of your Father in heaven."* – Matthew 5:44-45
Help [her name] to continue to love and pray for her husband, even in this season of pain and separation. Strengthen her resolve to act in love, and let her trust that You are moving in his heart and her family.

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We ask all of this in Jesus’ mighty name. Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏 Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)


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