Struggling

Anonymous · Wednesday at 8:07 AM

I am struggling with depression and asking the Lord for help only to be ignored. Why does God do that? He sees me suffering yet does absolutely nothing! I pray everyday just to be ignored. I’m not sure why he’s punishing me but why not show me the errors I have made instead of allowing me to suffer? Why does God hate me so much? What have I done that was that bad to have to endure such suffering. I’m struggling with bills, I keep losing jobs, my significant other doesn’t love me anymore then on top of that God gave me the most disgusting looking body. I am stress eating which isn’t making things better and I’ve asked God in Jesus’ name 1,000x just to keep being ignored! Why would he make me look like this? Why can’t I look & feel beautiful? Why do I have to have this disgusting body? Just more proof that he hates me. I don’t believe any of that he made me in his image stuff because why would he make me ugly but make everyone else pretty? He sees my suffering and clearly find some joy in watching it. I feel like he wakes me up in the morning just to watch me suffer. I absolutely hate everything about myself. There’s not a single thing I like when I look in the mirror. I guess I was born to suffer

Articles · Wednesday at 8:09 AM

Let's address your concerns with a heart centered on God's word and trust in His goodness. Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that you're not being ignored by God. He hears your prayers and sees your struggles. The Bible tells us, "Cast your burden on WEB, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved" (Psalm 55:22).

However, God doesn't always answer our prayers in the way we expect or desire. His ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:9). He may be using these trials to draw you closer to Him, to strengthen your faith, and to mold you into the image of Christ. As it says in Romans 5:3-4, "We also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope."

God does not hate you. He loves you deeply and sent His Son to die for you, so that you may have eternal life (John 3:16). He did not create you to suffer, but to have abundant life (John 10:10). The struggles you're facing are not a punishment, but a result of living in a fallen world. However, God can use these struggles for your good (Romans 8:28).

Regarding your body image, remember that God created you in His image (Genesis 1:27), and you are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). Physical beauty is fleeting, but the beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit is precious to God (1 Peter 3:3-4). He does not joy in our suffering, but He does rejoice when we turn to Him in our struggles (2 Chronicles 7:14).

It's also crucial to address the issue of your significant other. The Bible teaches that marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman (Matthew 19:4-6). If your significant other is not your spouse, consider that God's design for romantic relationships is within the context of marriage. If you are not married, then you should consider yourself single and if you are dating someone that they should be a potential spouse.

Lastly, it's important to remember that our struggles can often be influenced by spiritual forces. The Bible tells us that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual powers (Ephesians 6:12). So, let's pray together:

"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our dear sister/brother (it is not wise to assume the gender of anyone posting as Anonymous) who is struggling with depression and feelings of neglect and rejection, self esteem issues, money, job, and relationship issues. We pray that You would comfort her/him, remind her/him of Your unfailing love, and give her/him the strength to endure these trials. We rebuke any spiritual attacks that may be influencing these struggles, and we pray for healing and restoration in every area of her/his life. We ask that You would guide her/him and provide for all her/his needs whether financial, relational, or otherwise and that You would fill her/him with the fruit of the Spirit as opposed to the works of the flesh. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Finally, it's important to seek Godly counsel and professional help if you're struggling with depression and body image issues. God uses professionals and other mentors to bring hope and healing. Do not seek God's help but disregard the resources that He has already placed in your life to help you.

hostadmin · Wednesday at 8:12 AM

I hear your cry, dear one, and I'm here with you in this. It's like you're walking through a dark valley, and it feels like God's turned His back on you. But remember, even in the darkest night, the stars still shine, and God is always there, even when it doesn't feel like it.

You're not alone in your struggles. Depression is a heavy burden to bear, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed. It's okay to ask, "Why, God?" It's okay to feel angry, confused, and hurt. God can handle your raw, honest emotions. He's not a distant, unfeeling being. He's a Father who loves you deeply and personally.

You've been through so much - the loss of jobs, the strain of bills, the pain of feeling unloved. And on top of that, you're battling with your body image. It's a lot to carry. But remember, God sees you. He sees your pain, your struggles, your tears. He sees the unique, beautiful person you are, created in His image.

It's not that God hates you or is punishing you. It's not that He's ignoring your prayers. It's that He's working in your life in ways you might not understand yet. He's using these trials to shape you, to strengthen you, to draw you closer to Him. He's using them to help you see your need for Him and to trust in His goodness, even when life is hard.

You're right, God could have made you look different. But He didn't. He made you just as you are, and that's not a mistake. He has a purpose in it. He wants you to find your worth and identity in Him, not in your appearance. He wants you to know that your value comes from being His child, not from how you look in the mirror.

Keep praying, dear one. Keep crying out to God. He hears you. He sees you. He loves you. And He's working in your life, even when you can't see it. Trust in Him. Lean on Him. He's your rock, your refuge, your strength.

And remember, you're not alone. We're here with you, praying for you, supporting you. Together, we can face these struggles and find hope in Jesus.

Saraha · Wednesday at 8:25 AM

Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

flora · Wednesday at 8:55 AM

Praying in Jesus Name.

Anonymous · Wednesday at 8:57 AM

Articles said:
Let's address your concerns with a heart centered on God's word and trust in His goodness. Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that you're not being ignored by God. He hears your prayers and sees your struggles. The Bible tells us, "Cast your burden on WEB, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved" (Psalm 55:22).

However, God doesn't always answer our prayers in the way we expect or desire. His ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:9). He may be using these trials to draw you closer to Him, to strengthen your faith, and to mold you into the image of Christ. As it says in Romans 5:3-4, "We also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope."

God does not hate you. He loves you deeply and sent His Son to die for you, so that you may have eternal life (John 3:16). He did not create you to suffer, but to have abundant life (John 10:10). The struggles you're facing are not a punishment, but a result of living in a fallen world. However, God can use these struggles for your good (Romans 8:28).

Regarding your body image, remember that God created you in His image (Genesis 1:27), and you are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). Physical beauty is fleeting, but the beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit is precious to God (1 Peter 3:3-4). He does not joy in our suffering, but He does rejoice when we turn to Him in our struggles (2 Chronicles 7:14).

It's also crucial to address the issue of your significant other. The Bible teaches that marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman (Matthew 19:4-6). If your significant other is not your spouse, consider that God's design for romantic relationships is within the context of marriage. If you are not married, then you should consider yourself single and if you are dating someone that they should be a potential spouse.

Lastly, it's important to remember that our struggles can often be influenced by spiritual forces. The Bible tells us that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual powers (Ephesians 6:12). So, let's pray together:

"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our dear sister/brother (it is not wise to assume the gender of anyone posting as Anonymous) who is struggling with depression and feelings of neglect and rejection, self esteem issues, money, job, and relationship issues. We pray that You would comfort her/him, remind her/him of Your unfailing love, and give her/him the strength to endure these trials. We rebuke any spiritual attacks that may be influencing these struggles, and we pray for healing and restoration in every area of her/his life. We ask that You would guide her/him and provide for all her/his needs whether financial, relational, or otherwise and that You would fill her/him with the fruit of the Spirit as opposed to the works of the flesh. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Finally, it's important to seek Godly counsel and professional help if you're struggling with depression and body image issues. God uses professionals and other mentors to bring hope and healing. Do not seek God's help but disregard the resources that He has already placed in your life to help you.

I have sought the counsel and no matter how hard I seek he ignores me. He’s not answering any prayers at all! I’m praying for nothing! Not answering anything I ask is punishment just like it is when you are young and ask your parents for things and they don’t give them to you. I have prayed for everything down to stronger faith and he ignores every single thing I ask for! You don’t assume gender but you are assuming that I ignore resources? I was given this body to be ridiculed! What other reason would I be given it? What lesson is allowing me to continue to suffer teaching me? Why shouldn’t I think a person hates me if they won’t help me? Make what you’re saying make sense.

usha rani · Wednesday at 9:05 AM

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

Cinu · Wednesday at 7:38 PM

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

The Encourager · Thursday at 6:33 AM

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.