Struggling with ### thoughts, fear of abandonment

[Sister Ambria]

I’m asking for prayers because I’m in a vulnerable headspace right now. My menstrual cycle is coming to an end and my emotions are fluctuating. I’m also having some homosexual thoughts for some reason. My fear of abandonment is coming in with ###. I really like him and it’s been hard trying not to talk to him every day. I wish I could see him more and that we could be married so that I don’t have to worry about a text from him, and he can just come home into my arms. I went to be held, touched, not just told that I’m loved but to feel it. I want to know him, what makes him laugh, see his smile face to face, dance together.

 

[Articles]

Sister ###, we are here to support and pray with you in this challenging time. Let's first address the concerns you've shared.

The Bible tells us in 2 Corinthians 10:5, "bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ." It's crucial to take every thought, including the homosexual thoughts you're experiencing, and bring them under the lordship of Jesus Christ. These thoughts do not align with God's design for our lives (Romans 1:26-27). In moments of temptation, call upon the name of Jesus, who can sympathize with our weaknesses (Hebrews 4:15).

Regarding your feelings for ###, it's natural to desire companionship and marriage. However, it's essential to build relationships on God's principles. God desires that we flee from sexual immorality and control our bodies in a way that is holy and honorable (1 Thessalonians 4:3-4). Keep your interactions pure and focus on building a friendship that honors God. Remember, God has a perfect plan for your life, including your relationships (Jeremiah 29:11).

Your fear of abandonment is a real concern, but remember what the Psalmist says, "Even though my father and mother have forsaken me, then Yahweh will take me up" (Psalm 27:10). Trust that God will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your grace and mercy upon Sister ###. Lord, help her to bring every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ. Cast out any spirit of fear and replace it with Your perfect love (1 John 4:18). Help her to trust in You and Your plan for her life, including her relationships. May Your will be done in her life, in Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Sister ###, continue to meditate on God's Word and seek His face. Trust that He has a plan for you, and He will never leave you. If you haven't already, ensure that you have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, as it is only through Him that we can approach God (John 14:6). Stay strong in the Lord and keep your hope in Him.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister, praying and supporting you through this time. We've been thinking about you and wanted to reach out with some more encouragement.

Firstly, we want to remind you that God sees you, He knows your heart, and He loves you just as you are. He's walking with you through these emotions and thoughts, and He's got a plan for your life. Remember, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future" (Jeremiah 29:11).

We understand that your menstrual cycle can bring about fluctuations in emotions, and it's okay to feel what you're feeling. It's also normal to have questions and doubts about your attractions. What's important is that you keep seeking God's truth and His perspective. He's given us His Word to guide us, and it tells us that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). Let's ask God to help us honor Him with our bodies and our thoughts.

As for your feelings for Andrew, we understand that it's natural to desire companionship and love. But remember, God's way is always the best way. He's called us to flee from sexual immorality and to control our bodies in a way that's holy and honorable (1 Thessalonians 4:3-4). Let's keep our interactions pure and focus on building a friendship that honors God. Trust that God has a perfect plan for your relationship with Andrew, too.

Your fear of abandonment is real, but we want to remind you of the promise in Psalm 34:18, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." God is near, He's with you, and He'll never leave you or forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come to You in Jesus' name, asking for Your comfort and peace for our sister. Lord, help her to trust in You and Your plan for her life. Help her to honor You with her thoughts and actions. Fill her with Your love and cast out any fear. Give her strength and courage, and remind her that You are always with her. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep seeking God, sister. He's got you, and He's working everything together for your good (Romans 8:28). Stay strong in the Lord and keep your hope in Him. We're here for you, and we're believing in God's goodness with you.

 

[The Encourager]

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, heal and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, and we are honored that you have shared your struggles with us so that we can stand in agreement with you before the Lord. We want to remind you that you are not alone in your battle against unwanted thoughts and fears. We are here to support you and intercede on your behalf.

If you have seen progress and your requests have been answered, we would be delighted to hear your praise report. Your testimony will encourage others and bring glory to God. If you are still struggling and your requests do not seem to have been answered yet, we want you to know that it's okay to come back and share your needs again. We are here to continue praying with you and for you.

We pray specifically for God's peace to guard your heart and mind during this emotionally vulnerable time. We ask the Lord to deliver you from any unwanted thoughts and to replace them with His truth. We also pray for His comfort and strength as you navigate your relationship with ###, and for God's will to be done in your lives.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray that you will feel His love and presence, not just hear about it, but truly experience it. We ask all of this in Jesus Name,