struggling with relationship and future

[Tyrhand]

Dear God, please me and my ### are trying our bests to make a future with each other come true. She's giving it her all and I'm too trying but her parents kinda had an issue with this. God, please help everything fall into place again so we can be happy with each other. Please help us, God, may this relationship work out really well.

 

[Articles]

Tyrhand, we understand that you're struggling with your relationship and future, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. First, we notice that your prayer is addressed to God, but it's important to remember that Jesus Christ is the way, the truth, and the life, and no one comes to the Father except through Him. It is in Jesus' Name that we pray and have access to God. As the Bible tells us, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB)

We also need to address something important in your request. You mention that you and your girlfriend are trying your best to make a future together. While we understand your feelings, we want to remind you that the Bible teaches us to be equally yoked with fellow believers (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB) and that marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman (Matthew 19:4-6 WEB). It is a courtship looking toward marriage.

The Bible also tells us to honor our parents (Exodus 20:12 WEB), so it's important to consider their concerns and wisdom. If her parents have issues with your relationship, it's crucial to understand their reasons and address them respectfully. It is not appropriate for Christian couples to be trying to make things work out really well but to be seeking God's will together.

Regarding the intimacy in your relationship, we want to remind you that sexual intimacy is a gift from God to be enjoyed within the bounds of marriage (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). Any sexual activity outside of marriage is considered fornication, which is sinful and not pleasing to God. The Bible gives clear instructions that sex before or outside marriage is fornication. In fact, the bible goes much further and says if you have lusted after someone you have already committed adultery or fornication in your heart.

We encourage you to seek God's will for your relationship and future. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). Let's pray together:

Heavenly Father, in Jesus' Name, we come to you with Tyrhand's concern. Lord, we ask for Your will to be done in his life and for Your guidance in his relationship. Help him to trust in You and to seek You first. We pray for Your wisdom to be upon him and his girlfriend and for the parents to have discernment in this situation. We ask this in Jesus' Name. Amen.

Let us know how we can continue to pray for you, Tyrhand. We're here to support you in your walk with Christ.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you too, ###. We understand that relationships can be complex, especially when families are involved. Let's keep praying together, seeking God's guidance and wisdom.

We believe that God wants the best for you and your girlfriend. As it's written in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Let's trust in His plans.

We also want to encourage you to keep open and honest communication with your girlfriend and her parents. Share your feelings, listen to theirs, and always strive to understand each other better. Remember, love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things (1 Corinthians 13:7).

Let's pray:

Dear Heavenly Father, in Jesus' Name, we ask for Your guidance in ###'s relationship. Help them to navigate the challenges they're facing, to trust in You, and to seek Your will above their own. Give them wisdom, understanding, and patience. We also pray for her parents, that You would give them discernment and open hearts. Help them to see the love and respect that ### has for their daughter. We ask this in Jesus' Name. Amen.

We're here for you, ###. Let's keep lifting you up in prayer.

 

[Dan T]

Heavenly Father, you are GREAT, and you are GOOD! We love you with all our hearts and souls, and we thank you for being our Sovereign God. Lord, we lift this couple to you today and ask that you mend their relationship. Please guide them into your abundant blessings and draw them closer to you so that they may hear your small voice obey your direction and guidance. We ask you to allow them to walk through this period with continual thanks and praise to you. Finally, Papa, we ask that you put your favor upon these people and prosper all that they do, in Jesus' name!

 

[BlessedChristian female]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[justinvd]

I have prayed for you in Jesus name.

**Please pray for your fellow Christian/Saints on the board as Ephesians 6:18 commands.

"Pray at all times in the Spirit, with every prayer and request, and stay alert in this, with all perseverance and intercession for all the saints"

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


sermons

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

be-an-encourager.blogspot.com

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to feel honored that you shared your relationship struggles with us, and we are grateful for the opportunity to stand with you in prayer. We have been lifting up your future with your girlfriend and asking God to guide both of your hearts.

If you have seen improvements in your relationship and her parents have started to accept you, we would love to hear your praise report. Your testimony could encourage others who are going through similar situations.

If the situation has not changed or seems more challenging, please don't hesitate to share an update. We want to continue praying for you both and for her parents, asking God to soften their hearts and see the sincerity in your relationship. Remember, God's timing is perfect, and He is working everything out for your good.

We are here for you, praying that God's will be done in your life and that His peace, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your heart and mind. We pray that you both will grow stronger in your faith and relationship with Jesus Christ as you journey together.

Keep seeking Him, keep trusting Him, and keep holding on to His promises. In Jesus Name.