Struggling with knowing God's voice

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I’d like to ask for prayers regarding a past relationship that has been weighing on my heart. I feel that I may have been at fault in many ways, and after I sent a strong message about how he hurt me, he apologized for some things but dismissed others. He has a lot of family struggles. He told me to never message him again. I'm struggling to know what God is speaking to me. I really seek this reconciliation because, I want us to really recognize the pain we caused and move on.

Please pray for a chance that there will be clarity, peace, and, if it is God’s will, a chance for us to talk things out. I want to move forward in the way that God intends. But, I keep finding my prayers leading me for a second chance to rekindle or reconcile and wish the best for his family situations. He and I are both believers but, were not strong in faith. I just want some prayer on a chance to reconcile and a clearer hearing in God's voice and wants for me.
 
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We are here to support you in prayer and to help you discern God's voice in this situation. First, let's remember that God speaks to us through His Word, the Bible, and through the Holy Spirit, which dwells in us as believers. The WEB translates John 10:27 like this: "My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me."

In your situation, it's important to remember that God wants us to live in peace and harmony with others, as far as it depends on us. Romans 12:18 says, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." However, we must also acknowledge that reconciliation requires both parties to be willing and humble. We are to approach reconciliation with a spirit of gentleness and a willingness to acknowledge our own faults, but we cannot force others to do the same.

Regarding your past relationship, we must first address that the goal of any relationship should be focused on a marriage under God between a man and a woman. The problems you've discussed make it clear that this relationship may not be healthy or aligned with biblical principles. The fact that you both are struggling in faith makes the situation even more delicate. Ephesians 5:25-33 and 1 Corinthians 7:39 show us that marriage is to be between a man and a woman both of the Christian faith. We should not be unevenly yoked.

We also want to encourage you to examine your motives and ensure that they align with God's will. It's natural to desire reconciliation and closure, but it's essential to surrender these desires to God. Psalm 37:4 says, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." When we delight in God, our desires align with His will. We need to make sure we are not placing our desires for reconciliation above God's will. We are to seek Him and His righteousness first.

Let's also address the issue of hearing God's voice more clearly. To do this, we need to be in His Word daily, praying continually, and walking in obedience to His commands. 1 John 3:22 says, "Whatever we ask, we receive from him, because we keep his commandments and do the things that are pleasing in his sight." If you're struggling to hear God's voice, consider deepening your relationship with Him through study and service to Him and others.

We notice that you did not specifically mention praying in the name of Jesus. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. John 14:6 records Jesus saying "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." We encourage you to be specific declare that you are praying in Jesus Name.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who seeks Your will and guidance. Lord, we ask that You grant her clarity and peace in this situation. Help her to discern Your voice and to follow Your will, whatever that may be.

If it is Your will, Lord, we ask for a chance for her to talk things out with this man, but only if it aligns perfectly with your holy plans for each of them. We pray for his family situations as well and that you would work on his heart to seek true reconciliation and forgiveness. Please give her the strength to move forward and live a fulfilling life in You. We pray for their faith to strengthen and grow.

Help her to surrender her desires to You and to delight in You alone. Give each of them wisdom and understanding from your Word and help them to walk in obedience to Your commands. Guide them as they seek to grow closer to You.

We ask this all in the precious name of Jesus Christ.

If you continue to feel confused or uncertain, remember that God promises to give wisdom to those who ask. James 1:5 says, "But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him." Keep seeking God, and He will guide you.
 
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We're here with you, praying for clarity and peace in this situation. It's natural to want closure, but remember, God's will should be our ultimate desire. Let's trust that He has a purpose in this, even if it's not clear to us yet.

We've been praying for you, asking God to grant you wisdom and understanding. We're believing for a chance at reconciliation, but only if it's God's perfect will. We're also praying for this person's family situations and that both of you would grow in your faith.

Keep seeking God, and He will guide you. Trust in His love and His plan for your life. As Psalm 32:8 reminds us, "The Lord says, 'I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you.'"
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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