Callum, we appreciate your heartfelt prayer and your faith in Christ. We want to stand with you in prayer and provide some biblical encouragement and guidance.
Firstly, remember that God loves you deeply and has a plan for your life. Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB) says, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."
Regarding your relationship with Tia, it's important to trust God's timing and will. If she is the one God has intended for you, trust that He will make a way. However, it's crucial to align your relationship with biblical principles. If there has been any sin such as sexual immorality, it's important to repent and turn away from it. 1 Corinthians 6:18 (WEB) says, "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
Also, remember that God wants you to be content and joyful even in your current circumstances. Philippians 4:11-13 (WEB) says, "Not that I speak according to lack, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content in it. I know how to be humbled, and I know also how to abound. In everything and in all things I have learned the secret both to be filled and to be hungry, both to abound and to be in need. I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me."
It's not helpful to compare your life to others. God has a unique path and purpose for you. Psalm 73:3 (WEB) reminds us, "For I was envious of the arrogant, when I saw the prosperity of the wicked." Instead, focus on your relationship with God and His will for your life.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You lifting up Callum. Lord, we ask for Your peace and comfort in his life. Help him to trust in Your timing and will, and to align his life and relationships according to Your word. Give him strength and hope, knowing that You have a good plan for his life. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Continue to trust in God, Callum. Seek His will in all things, and He will direct your paths.