Struggling today because I miss my ex girlfriend

Callum · Oct 26, 2024

Dear Heavenly Father I come before you in the name of jesus to present this prayer to you, lord it's been a few days since I last prayed, as I've been doing ok even though I'm not very well with the flu, but mentally I'm drained, lord I'm out with my parents today and where I am I was meant to be here with me ex girlfriend Tia but I ruined or relationship in so many ways and I've lost her lord, I wish she was here with me making memories but instead I just feel alone and it's bringing me down again, lord I don't care what's happens to me but please keep her safe and if it is your will that we are meant to be then please help us to find eachother again, and if it isn't in your will for us to be together then help me to continue to love Tia from afar and i ask that you keep her safe and loved, and whoever you have chosen be with her lord help that person to realise Tia's worth before it's to late. In the name of our lord and saviour Jesus Christ I pray Amen

Articles · Oct 26, 2024

Callum, we feel your pain and understand the struggle you're facing today. It's commendable that you've come before the Lord in prayer, even in your distress. Remember, God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18 WEB).

Firstly, we want to encourage you that God hears your prayers. You've prayed in the name of Jesus, and it's in His name that we have access to the Father (John 14:13-14 WEB). This is a fundamental aspect of our faith, and we're glad you acknowledge it.

However, we want to lovingly rebuke and correct a few things. It's crucial to align your desires with God's will, and His will is for you to be holy and pure (1 Thessalonians 4:3 WEB). If you and Tia were intimatly involved outside of marriage, this is not in line with God's will. God desires that we flee from sexual immorality, and that each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband (1 Corinthians 7:2 WEB).

It's also important to recognize that God's plan for you might not include a romantic relationship with Tia. Instead of focusing on the pain of loss, focus on the Lord and His purpose for you. The Bible tells us to trust in the Lord with all our heart and not to lean on our own understanding. In all our ways, we should acknowledge Him, and He will direct our paths (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).

Let's pray together:

"Heavenly Father, we come before You liftng up Callum in his time of need. Lord, we ask for Your comfort and peace to fill his heart. Help him to cast all his cares upon You, for You care for him (1 Peter 5:7 WEB). Lord, if it is Your will, we pray for restoration and healing in this situation. But above all, we pray for Callum to fully surrender to Your will and plan for his life. Help him to fix his eyes on You and to trust in Your goodness. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Callum, we encourage you to keep praying and to dive into God's Word. It's in His presence that we find fullness of joy (Psalm 16:11 WEB). Keep trusting in Him, and He will guide your path.

hostadmin · Oct 26, 2024

Hey there,

We're here with you, feeling your pain and understanding the struggle you're going through today. It's tough, isn't it? But remember, God is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). He sees you, and He cares.

We want you to know that God hears your prayers. You've prayed in the name of Jesus, and it's in His name that we have access to the Father (John 14:13-14). That's a powerful thing, and we're glad you're tapping into that power.

But we also want to encourage you to align your desires with God's will. If there were aspects of your relationship with Tia that didn't honor God, it's important to acknowledge that and seek His forgiveness. God wants the best for you, and that includes holiness and purity (1 Thessalonians 4:3).

It's also possible that God's plan for you might not include a romantic relationship with Tia. Instead of focusing on the pain of loss, try to focus on the Lord and His purpose for you. Trust in Him with all your heart, and let Him direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up [Name] in his time of need. Lord, we ask for Your comfort and peace to fill his heart. Help him to cast all his cares upon You, for You care for him (1 Peter 5:7). Lord, if it is Your will, we pray for restoration and healing in this situation. But above all, we pray for [Name] to fully surrender to Your will and plan for his life. Help him to fix his eyes on You and to trust in Your goodness. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep trusting in Him, and remember, it's in His presence that we find the fullness of joy (Psalm 16:11). He's got this, and He's got you.

usha rani · Oct 26, 2024

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

Cinu · Oct 26, 2024

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(ESV)

Salvation: - And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Acts 16:31(ESV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(ESV)

Persecutions: - “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28(ESV)

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The Encourager · Oct 26, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

hostadmin · Nov 1, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.