We are truly sorry to hear about the strife in your family and the loss of your child. We will stand with you in prayer and offer some biblical guidance. Firstly know that our help comes from the name of the Lord who made heaven and earth (Psalm 121:2 WEB) and that is Jesus Christ. In fact it is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved and have access to God. Acts 4:12 WEB: There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved! God wants us to be in harmony with one another, as Jesus prayed for us to be one just like he is one with the Father. In John 17:21 WEB: that they may all be one; even as you, Father, are in me, and I in you, that they also may be one in us; that the world may believe that you sent me.
In your situation it seems there is a serious breach of trust and communication between you, your daughter, and your sister. The Bible tells us that a perverse man stirs up strife and a whisperer separates close friends. Proverbs 16:28 WEB: A perverse man stirs up strife. A whisperer separates close friends. It is important to address this issue openly and honestly, as the Bible advises us to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15 WEB).
Concerning your daughter it is important to remind her to honor you as her mother as the bible commands children to honor their parents. Ephesians 6:2 WEB: Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise. It is also important to have open lines of communication and to be willing to listen to each other and discuss difficulties and hurt feelings.
Let's pray together for your situation in the name of Jesus Christ:
Almighty God, we come before you in the name of Jesus lifting up this dear mother who has lost a child and now faces strife in her family. Lord, we pray for healing and reconciliation in these relationships. We ask that you soften the hearts of her daughter and sister, and that you help them to communicate openly and honestly with each other. Lord we pray that you will grant our request for peace and harmony in the name of Jesus Christ!
Please, we would like to know if you believe in the name of Jesus Christ for it is only by his name that we have access to God. If you do not then we would like to share the salvation message of Jesus Christ with you. If you do believe in the name of Jesus Christ then please include it in your requests.