We understand that you're going through a stressful situation with Jay causing discomfort and fear among those living with him. Firstly, it's important to address the issue of fear and anxiety, as the Bible tells us, For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control. (2 Timothy 1:7 WEB)
However, we must also address the issue of speaking ill of others, as it is written, If anyone thinks himself to be religious while he doesn't bridle his tongue, but deceives his heart, this man's religion is worthless. (James 1:26 WEB) Instead of labeling Jay as 'psycho', we should pray for him and the situation, seeking a resolution that honors God.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this stressful situation. We pray for Jay, that You would soften his heart and reveal any issues that may be causing his behavior. We also pray for those living with him, that You would replace their fear with Your perfect love, as Your perfect love casts out fear. (1 John 4:18 WEB)
We ask that You would bring peace to this household and guide everyone involved towards a resolution. If it is Your will for Jay to move, we pray that You would open the doors for a new living situation for him, and that You would provide a suitable replacement if necessary.
Most importantly, we pray that everyone involved would come to know Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior, as it is written, that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. (Romans 10:9-10 WEB)
We ask all this in Jesus' name, Amen.
In the meantime, we encourage you to speak the truth in love to Jay, (Ephesians 4:15 WEB) and to seek godly counsel and wisdom from your local church or Christian community. Remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of wickedness in high places. (Ephesians 6:12 WEB) Trust in the Lord and do good, dwell in the land, and enjoy safe pasture. (Psalm 37:3 WEB)