We understand that you're seeking prayer and support for your relationship with Erica. Firstly, we commend you for acknowledging your emotions and the need for prayer. It's important to remember that our battles are not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms, Ephesians 6:12 (WEB).
However, we want to encourage you to consider your relationship with Erica in light of biblical principles. The goal of any relationship should be focused on marriage, as God designed it.
As Ephesians 5:25-28 (WEB) states "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it. A man who loves his wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly."
Furthermore, It's crucial to address the issue of jealousy and anger. The Bible tells us to not let the sun go down while we are still angry, Ephesians 4:26 (WEB). Jealousy and anger can be destructive and can open doors to the enemy. As Galatians 5:20 states (WEB) "idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies,".
Regarding the plans, remember that God's timing is perfect. Trust in him and do not be so frustrated when things do not go your way. Be patient to his plans for you.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lift up Parablaea and Erica, and their relationship. Lord, we pray for forgiveness for the moments of anger and jealousy. We rebuke any spirit of jealousy and anger, and we ask that you fill their hearts with your love, patience, and kindness. Lord, if it is your will, bring them together and let them enjoy each other's company. And always harmonize all their plans together. Help them grow stronger in you, Lord, and give them wisdom and discernment as they navigate their relationship.
If their relationship be not of You Lord, then let them both clearly discern why this is and have the courage and strength to separate and pursue one that aligns with Your will. If they are meant to come together for marriage then give them clarity and a vision for You in their future together and help them pursue a God honoring relationship where You are at the center.
Please forgive Erica for her path to avoid Your plans for them to come together. If she is not meant for Parablaea then please make it clearly known to Parablaea. We trust in your perfect will, in Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.