We understand your heart's desire, Callum, but let us first align your request with biblical principles. God's will is always for us to walk in obedience to His Word, and His desire is for us to have healthy, godly relationships.
Firstly, we commend you for coming before the Lord in Jesus' name, as it is only through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, WEB).
However, we must rebuke the idea of manipulating someone's actions, even in prayer. It is not our place to ask God to make someone do something, but rather to seek His will and trust that He knows what is best for us (Romans 8:28, WEB).
In matters of relationships, the Bible teaches us to love one another as Christ loved us (John 13:34, WEB). This love is patient, kind, and not self-seeking (1 Corinthians 13:4-7, WEB). It is not characterized by repeated attempts to maintain contact when the other person desires space.
Instead of asking God to make Tia block you or reach out to you, consider praying for God's will to be done in both of your lives. Pray for wisdom, healing, and growth for both of you. Trust that if it is God's will for you to be together, He will make a way in His timing (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Callum and Tia. Lord, we ask for Your will to be done in their lives. Grant them both wisdom, healing, and growth. Help them to trust in Your timing and Your plan. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Callum, we encourage you to focus on your personal relationship with the Lord during this time. Draw near to Him, and He will draw near to you (James 4:8, WEB). Trust that He has a plan and a purpose for your life.