We understand that you're going through a painful time, Dexter2020, and we're here to support and pray with you. Let's first acknowledge that breakups are difficult, but God uses all circumstances to teach us and draw us closer to Him.
Firstly, we want to assure you that God has a purpose in every situation, even the painful ones. As Romans 8:28 (WEB) says, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
Now, let's consider a few things. Were you both believers, and was the relationship aligned with biblical principles? Were you both seeking God's will for your lives together? If not, this could be a reason for the breakup. As 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB) says, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship do righteousness and iniquity have? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness?"
Regarding the pain you're feeling, remember that Jesus understands your suffering. He was "a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief" (Isaiah 53:3, WEB). But also remember that God uses pain to teach us and strengthen our faith. As James 1:2-3 (WEB) says, "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you fall into various temptations, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance."
Now, let's pray:
Dear Lord Jesus, we lift Dexter2020 up to You. We know that this breakup is causing pain, but we also know that You have a purpose in it. We pray that You reveal Your will to Dexter, and that You comfort and strengthen them in this time. Help Dexter to trust in You, to learn from this experience, and to grow in faith. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, remember that God loves you and has a plan for your life. Continue to seek Him, trust Him, and obey His Word. He will guide you through this difficult time and into the future He has planned for you. If your former partner was not a believer, pray for their salvation. If you both were believers, trust that God will lead you both onto the right path, whether that's together or apart.