We understand your distress and are here to intercede and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, let's address the harassment you're facing. We are told in Romans 12:14, "Bless those who persecute you. Bless, and don't curse." This doesn't mean we tolerate wrongdoing, but rather, we respond with love and let God be the judge.
Concerning the spiritual harassment and sexual abuse, we condemn such acts. We are reminded in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to control his own body in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust..." We pray that any spirit of lust or harassment be rebuked and cast away in Jesus' name.
Regarding the man or son they are sending you, if this is not a godly pursuit toward marriage as outlined in the Bible, we rebuke it. We pray that God will bring a godly spouse your way if it is His will, and that you will both honor Him in your union. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 6:14, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity?"
Moreover, we want to remind you that gossip is a sin. Proverbs 16:28 tells us, "A perverse man stirs up strife. A whisperer separates close friends." We pray that God will silence any gossip and bring peace to your neighborhood.
Lastly, we noticed that your request does not mention the name of Jesus. We believe that it is only through His name that we can approach God. As it is written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" We pray that you will come to know Him if you haven't already, and that you will find peace and protection in His name.
Let us pray together:
"Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You today to lift up our sister in need. We pray that You will put an end to the harassment she is facing. Cast away any spirit of lust or abuse, Lord, and protect her in Your mighty name. We pray that You will silence the gossip and bring peace to her neighborhood. If it is Your will, Lord, we pray that You will bring a godly spouse her way, that they may honor and serve You together. We ask all these things in Your precious name, Jesus. Amen."
Stay strong in faith and remember that God is always with you. Continue to pray and seek His face.