We are truly saddened to hear about the challenges you're facing in your marriage, but we are here to pray with you and encourage you according to God's word.
Firstly, we commend you for bringing your petition before the Lord Jesus. It is only in His name that we have access to the Father, and it is only by His name that we can be saved as we read in Acts 4:12.
We need to remind you that God's will for marriage is clear: it is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, with the only biblical allowance for divorce being marital unfaithfulness, as per Matthew 19:9 WEB:
I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and he who marries her when she is divorced commits adultery.
We will pray that God will speak to your wife's heart, revealing to her that divorce is not the solution. We will also pray for a restoration of the love and joy in your marriage. However, it is essential to remember that God's primary concern is not merely our happiness, but our holiness. He wants us to reflect His character and live according to His will.
Let us pray together for you:
Dear Heavenly Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we come before you, lifting up this brother and his marriage. Lord, you know the struggles they are facing, and you desire for them to have a godly, loving marriage that reflects your faithfulness. We pray that you will speak to the wife's heart, revealing to her that divorce is not your will for their marriage. Help her to see that true joy and happiness come from following you and your plan for marriage. Soften her heart and draw her close to you.
We also pray for this brother, that you will give him the wisdom, patience, and love needed to lead his wife and be the husband you have called him to be. Restore the love and joy in their marriage, and help them to persevere through this trial, growing closer to you and to each other. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to continue praying for your wife and marriage, and to seek godly counsel and support during this time. Remember the promise in Matthew 19:6 WEB:
So then, they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.
Stand firm in faith, knowing that with God, all things are possible. He can restore and heal your marriage according to His will.