Still asking God to drop the annulment / divorce

[momowei]

Dear Heavenly Father, You know my pain of losing my husband. He blocked me and won't communicate with me. I took a week off to lose over $1000 no paid leave to try to reconcile with him. He said if I go to his house, he will call the police. Last few weeks, we were all so happy together and he said he would cancel the case and would pick me up at the airport. He's highly influenced by his pastor, my narcissist ex, his mom, his sis with the ungodly advice which are not God's will. Lord, I'm exhausted and sad. He did more wrong than me but he believes the lies and keeps accusing me and i can see he's double minded. Please guide us what to do and let him go back to you and then go back to me. Please show the truth to him that I've been faithful to God and him. Please show the truth to me about him. Let him know God hates divorce and he needs to obey God to be blessed. Please forgive our sins and so we will be blessed. Please guide me if I shall and when I shall move to NC for new life. I saw him in my dreams and I cried that I couldn't send him messages anymore when I used to do that. I lost him and miss him so much. Please show him what's the meaning of 2 in 1 flesh in marriage but not treat me like a random sex partner that can dump me anytime. Please convict him by finding random girls to sleep. In Jesus name Amen

 

[Articles]

We understand that you are going through a tremendously painful situation, momowei, and our hearts go out to you. We will pray and provide biblical guidance for you during this challenging time.

Firstly, let's turn to the Bible for comfort and guidance. In Matthew 19:6 (WEB), Jesus says, "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." And in Malachi 2:16 (WEB), "For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel, and him who covers his garment with violence!' says Yahweh of Armies. 'Therefore pay attention to your spirit, and don't be unfaithful.'" God's will is clear about marriage and divorce. God hates divorce and desires reconciliation.

However, it's crucial to acknowledge that reconciliation is a two-way street. Both parties must be willing to work together in obedience to God's will. In your case, you've mentioned that your husband has been influenced by ungodly advice and is accusing you unjustly. It's important to remember that you can only control your actions, not his.

In Ephesians 5:22-25 (WEB), " Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it;". and in Matthew 5:32 (WEB) "But I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries her when she is divorced commits adultery." and Matthew 5:28 (WEB) "but I tell you that everyone who gazes at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart." This makes it clear that your husband's behavior is wrong and sinful. Let's pray that the Holy Spirit convicts him of this.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up momowei in her pain and distress. Lord, You know the depth of her suffering, and You are close to the brokenhearted. We pray that You comfort her and guide her through this trial. We lift her husband up to be influenced by You and You alone. And that the work of the enemy will be stopped.

Lord, we ask that You reveal the truth to both of them. Open his eyes to see the ungodly influences in his life and grant him the courage to stand against them. Convict momowei's husband of his sin and turn his heart back towards You and momowei as your Word says to do so in Jesus' name. Show him that You hate divorce and that he needs to obey You to be blessed.Holy Spirit please speak to his heart and reveal to him that marriage is honorable and being with another women is wrong and not to participate in fornication or adultery. We lift up momowei's request regarding her proposed move to NC. Guide her, Father; let her know when and if she shall move for a new life.

Father we pray Your will be done in their lives and their marriage. Open the lines of communication between them, and let healing and reconciliation begin. We rebuke in Jesus' name any spiritual attack on their marriage and block any lies of the enemy. We pray that You forgive their sins to allow blessings to flow in their lives. We thank You that Your will will be done here just as it is done in Heaven to allow this marriage to be saved. LORD we thank You for Your answer. Holy Spirit we thank You for reminding us of LORD JESUS' words"

We would like to go further and address that sexual immorality is fornication and adultery. Your husband is not to seek out other women. This is against God and His will and Word.

Lastly, momowei, we encourage you to continue praying and trusting in God. Seek Him daily and remember the words of Proverbs 3:12-13 (WEB) "Whoever disregards discipline comes to poverty and shame, but whoever respects correction is honored. He who keeps discipline is on the way of life, but he who forsakes correction strays from that way." It may seem difficult now, but God is faithful, and He will see you through.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right here with you, sister. We've been praying and reflecting on your situation. It's clear that you're hurting, and we want you to know that we're here for you. We've been seeking God's guidance, and we feel led to share a few more things with you.

Firstly, we want to remind you of God's unchanging nature. In Malachi 3:6 (NIV), it says, "I the Lord do not change." God's will for marriage and divorce hasn't changed. He still hates divorce, as He clearly stated in Malachi 2:16. But remember, God is also a God of second chances, of redemption, and of restoration. He can turn even the hardest of hearts, and we believe He can work in your husband's life too.

We've also been thinking about 1 Corinthians 7:16 (NIV), "How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?" God has placed you in your husband's life for a reason, and vice versa. Keep praying for him, keep loving him, and trust that God can use you to bring him back to Himself.

We've been asking God to reveal the truth to both of you. We've been praying that your husband would see the ungodly influences in his life and have the courage to stand against them. We've been asking God to convict him of his sin and to turn his heart back towards Him and towards you.

We've also been praying about your proposed move to NC. We believe that God will guide you, and we ask that He would make His will clear to you. We trust that He will lead you in the right direction, for your good and His glory.

Lastly, we want to remind you of the power of forgiveness. In Ephesians 4:32 (NIV), it says, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." Forgiveness isn't about excusing the wrong done to you, but about letting go of the bitterness and anger. It's a choice you can make, and it's a key to your own healing and freedom.

Keep trusting in God, sister. He sees you, He hears you, and He's working all things together for your good and His glory. We're right here with you, praying and believing for a miracle in your marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Wernad]

Heavenly Father,


We come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this woman who is grieving the loss of connection with her husband. Lord, You see her pain and her longing for reconciliation, and You know the struggles they have endured. Your Word says in Psalm 34:18: "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Be near to her now, comforting her and granting her peace in this time of sorrow.


Father, we pray for her husband. Soften his heart and open his eyes to the truth. Your Word reminds us in James 1:8 that "A double-minded man is unstable in all his ways." Bring clarity and conviction to his mind, Lord, so that he may seek Your will above all else. Let him turn away from the lies and ungodly influences that have led him astray and seek reconciliation in accordance with Your design for marriage.


Your Word in Malachi 2:16 declares, "I hate divorce," says the Lord God of Israel. Remind him of the sacred covenant of marriage, that the two have become one flesh (Genesis 2:24), and show him the importance of honoring this bond. Let him understand the depth of commitment that marriage requires and seek to build a foundation of forgiveness, love, and faith in You.


Lord, we also pray for her. Strengthen her faith and give her clarity about the path You have for her life. If moving to North Carolina is part of Your plan, guide her in Your timing and provision. As Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." Help her to find peace in following Your will, whatever it may be.


We ask for forgiveness for the sins that have been committed by both husband and wife. Let them both be drawn closer to You, as Ephesians 4:32 teaches us: "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." May forgiveness and humility pave the way for healing and reconciliation in their marriage.


Finally, Lord, we pray for Your protection over her heart and mind. Guard her against despair and give her hope in Your faithfulness, as You promise in Romans 8:28: "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." Let her trust in Your perfect plan, knowing that You are with her every step of the way.


In Jesus’ mighty name,
Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.