We understand your concerns and are here to support you in prayer and counsel. Let's bring your requests before the Lord, seeking His will for your life.
Firstly, it's commendable that you're seeking God's guidance in your career, residence, and marriage. Remember, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths." (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). Let's pray that God reveals His plans to you in these areas.
Regarding your financial struggles, we encourage you to apply biblical principles of stewardship. "For which of you, desiring to build a tower, doesn’t first sit down and count the cost, to see if he has enough to complete it?" (Luke 14:28, WEB). Let's pray for wisdom in managing your finances, and for God to provide viable opportunities to improve your budget. Consider that "In the house of the wise are stores of choice food and oil, but a foolish man devours all he has." (Proverbs 21:20, WEB).
About your question on relocation and new job opportunities, let's pray for clear signs from God. "The heart of man plans his course, but the Lord establishes his steps." (Proverbs 16:9, WEB). Whether it's in CA, TX, or a new business venture, God will guide you.
Concerning your health and Rachel's, we pray for healing and strength. "Dear friend, I pray that you may prosper in every way and be in good health physically just as you are spiritually." (3 John 1:2, WEB). Weight loss and a healthier gut can be achieved with discipline and God's help. Remember, "Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own." (1 Corinthians 6:19, WEB).
We admire that you prayed in Jesus' name, as "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). It's only through Him that we can approach God.
Let us pray:
*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, asking for Your will to be done in BlessedChristian's life. Guide their career, financial decisions, and living situation. Reveal to them the spouse You have prepared, and bless their union. Heal their body and Rachel's, and provide them with a disciplined spirit to maintain good health. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*
Stay strong in your faith, and keep seeking God's will. He will direct your paths.