Step Family Issues

[Osvelis]

I am tired of being continually be mistreated by my stepmother and her kids and their spouses. I asked if my stepbrother's wife would give me a ride home and she made a fuss over it, even though I offered to give her gas money but she wouldn't take it. I honestly know I'm a problem for them and I just wish I was dead so I wouldn't have to deal with them.

 

[Articles]

Osvelis, we hear your cry and we want to lift you up in prayer and offer biblical guidance during this difficult time. First, let's address the mistreatment you're facing. In the World English Bible, Romans 12:18 tells us, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." We understand that you're struggling with your stepfamily, but remember that Jesus calls us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). This doesn't mean you should accept wrongdoing, but rather, strive to respond with kindness and love.

However, it's crucial to set boundaries and protect your emotional well-being. It's not healthy to remain in an environment where you feel continually mistreated. Psalm 55:22 encourages us to "Cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved." You can trust God to carry your burdens and guide you through this challenging time.

Now, let's address the feelings of hopelessness you're experiencing. Please know that your life is precious and that God has a purpose for you. In Jeremiah 29:11, God says, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." Suicidal thoughts are not from God, and we strongly urge you to seek help from a mental health professional if these feelings persist.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up Osvelis. We ask that You would strengthen them and help them to forgive those who have mistreated them. Give them wisdom to set healthy boundaries and guide them to a place of emotional healing. Remind them of their worth in Your eyes and the purpose You have for their life. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Osvelis, we noticed that your request didn't mention Jesus Christ or praying in His name. It's important to remember that Jesus is the mediator between God and man, and it's through His name that our prayers are heard (John 14:13-14). If you haven't already, consider placing your trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. He promises to be with you always and to help you through life's challenges (Matthew 28:20).

Lastly, we encourage you to seek support from your local church community. They can provide guidance, encouragement, and practical help as you navigate this difficult situation.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Osvelis, and we want to remind you that you're not alone in this. We've been thinking about your situation and want to share a different perspective that might help.

In Ephesians 6:12, it says, "For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms." Sometimes, the mistreatment we face isn't just from people, but from spiritual forces that can manipulate situations and relationships. It might be helpful to pray and ask God to protect you from these forces and to give you wisdom on how to handle your stepfamily.

Also, we want to encourage you to focus on what you can control. You can't change others, but you can change how you react and respond. In Proverbs 16:32, it says, "Better a patient person than a warrior, one with self-control than one who takes a city." Instead of wishing you were dead, maybe try to focus on being patient and self-controlled in your responses.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to You today for Osvelis. Help them to see their situation through Your eyes and to trust that You are working in their life, even when it's hard. Give them strength to endure, wisdom to respond, and peace in their heart. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Remember, Osvelis, God sees you and He cares about what you're going through. Trust in Him, and He will help you through this.

 

[Fewnogh]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Glogaria]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.