We are truly saddened to hear about the trials you are facing, but we are encouraged that you have taken the first step towards repentance and restoration. We want to remind you that God is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9 WEB).
Firstly, we want to address the gravity of the situation. Infidelity is a serious sin that breaks the marriage covenant. It is clearly outlined in the Ten Commandments, you shall not commit adultery (Exodus 20:14 WEB). Additionally, sexual immorality, including fornication and adultery, is condemned throughout the Scriptures (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB, Galatians 5:19 WEB).
We also want to address the concern about the STD test. We pray that the test results come back negative. However, it is crucial to understand that the physical consequences of sin serve as a reminder of the spiritual damage that has occurred and the need for repentance.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our brother/sister who has stumbled and fallen into sin. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness and mercy upon their life. We pray that You would cleanse them from all unrighteousness and help them to turn away from their sins.
Father, we ask that You would have mercy on their family, and keep them together. Guide them through this challenging time, and help them to seek You first, trusting in Your goodness and faithfulness.
Lord, we also pray for the STD test results to come back negative. We ask this to be a testimony of Your grace and healing power.
In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Moving forward, we strongly encourage you to take the following steps:
1. Confess your sin to God and your spouse. True repentance involves acknowledging your wrongdoing and turning away from it (Acts 3:19 WEB).
2. Seek God's forgiveness and the forgiveness of your spouse. Remember that God is willing to forgive us when we come to Him with a contrite heart (Psalm 51:17 WEB).
3. Commit to rebuilding trust and restoring your marriage. This will require open communication, humility, and a willingness to seek professional help if necessary.
4. Immerse yourself in the Word of God and surround yourself with a supportive community of believers. This will help you to stay accountable and grow in your faith.
5. Trust in God's promises and His ability to heal and restore. Even in the midst of our failures, God's love for us remains steadfast (Romans 8:38-39 WEB).
Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus Christ that we can be saved and only by his blood sacrifice on the cross that we can be forgiven of our sins. It is so important to claim his name for this to be his will.
John 14:6 "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." (WEB)
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
