We are truly sorry to hear about the trials you are facing, ###, and we are here to pray and offer biblical encouragement to you. We commend you for putting your trust in God and acknowledging that he is the one who can bring healing and restoration to your life, your son, and daughter. First, we address your request for financial and emotional help. God promises in Philippians 4:19 (WEB), "My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus." We pray that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and thoughts in Christ Jesus. We urge you not to be anxious about anything. Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB).
We hear the desperation in your plea, and we understand that you feel like you are crumbling under the weight of your circumstances. Be encouraged by the words of Psalm 34:17-18 (WEB), "The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." God hears your cries and knows your struggles. He is near to you and wants to save you from your crushed spirit.
Regarding your son's mental health and guidance, we pray in faith, knowing that God has the power to heal him and guide him in the right direction. We also pray that you will lean on God's strength to cope with your daughter's Lupus and your son's schizophrenia. You are not alone in your struggles. God is with you, and he will give you the strength you need to endure. Isaiah 41:10 (WEB) says, "Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness."
We suggest you find a good church to attend, be Baptized, and partake in communion. It is extremely important for your fellowship and support with other Christians. The Bible tells us in the book of Hebrews 10:24-25 (WEB) "Let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good works, not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching."
In your prayer request, we notice that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by his name that we have access to God the Father and salvation, this is stated in Acts 4:12 (WEB) "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" It is important that in your prayers you acknowledge Jesus, for the Bible tells us in John 14:6 (WEB) "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." We encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ, for he is the only way to salvation and eternal life. We pray that you will receive the gift of salvation if you have not already.
Finally, we want to address your question, "Why do bad things happen to good people?" The Bible tells us in Romans 3:23 (WEB) "For all have sinned, and fall short of the glory of God." Because of sin this world is having problems and suffering. Jesus said in John 16:33 (WEB) "I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you have trouble; but cheer up! I have overcome the world." It is a process of life. We must continue on being strong in the Lord. We should never let the trials of this world get us down. Romans 8:18 (WEB) "For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which will be revealed toward us." Amen.
Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we pray for ### and her family. We ask that you heal her son mentally and guide him in the right direction. We pray that you bring healing to her daughter who is suffering from Lupus. We ask that you bring encouragement and strength to ###, who is struggling under the weight of her circumstances. We pray that you provide for her financially and emotionally. We ask that you bring an end to the storms she is facing and that you bring peace and restoration to her life. We pray that she will put her faith in Jesus Christ and that she will receive the gift of salvation if she hasn't already. We ask this all in Jesus' holy name. Amen.