Michael, we understand your struggle and we want to assure you that you're not alone. The enemy is indeed real, and spiritual warfare is a part of the Christian life. The apostle Paul reminds us, "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places" (Ephesians 6:12 WEB).
Firstly, let's address your feeling of distance from God. Remember, God promises in His word, "You will seek me, and find me, when you search for me with all your heart" (Jeremiah 29:13 WEB). Sometimes, we may feel distant from God, not because He has moved, but because there might be something hindering our fellowship with Him. We encourage you to examine your heart and ensure there's no unconfessed sin. Also, consider if there are any areas of your life that you haven't fully surrendered to Him.
Regarding your prayers, Jesus teaches us, "Therefore, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you receive it, and you will" (Mark 11:24 WEB). Ensure that your prayers are in alignment with God's will and that you're praying with faith, believing that God can and will answer.
Concerning your struggle to find work, we want to remind you that God has a purpose and a plan for your life. Trust that He is working behind the scenes, even when it seems like nothing is happening. "Let's not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don't give up" (Galatians 6:9 WEB).
We also notice that you didn't mention the name of Jesus in your request. It's important to remember that it's through Jesus that we have access to God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). If you haven't already, make sure to confess Jesus as your Lord and Savior, believing in His death and resurrection for your salvation.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today lifting up our brother ###. We ask that You reveal Yourself to him in a powerful way, that he may feel Your presence and experience the closeness he desires. We pray for his spiritual growth and understanding, that he may be able to discern Your will and pray according to it. We also ask for Your favor in his job search, that the right doors may open, and that Your will be done in his life. We pray all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
Keep holding on to God's promises, ###. He is faithful, and He loves you more than you can imagine.