We understand your struggle with relationships and your desire for a lasting, God-ordained marriage. Let's first align our hearts with God's word. In 2 Corinthians 10:3-4 (WEB) it says, "For though we walk in the flesh, we don’t wage war according to the flesh; for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds."
We commend you for recognizing the spiritual battle and turning to prayer. It's crucial to remember that God has a plan for you, and His timing is perfect. As it is written in Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB), "‘For I know the plans that I have for you,’ says Yahweh, ‘plans for peace, and not for evil, to give you hope and a future.’"
However, we must also ensure we are aligning our desires with God's will. In matters of relationships, it's important to seek God first and trust His guidance. In Matthew 6:33 (WEB), Jesus says, "But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."
Let's pray together:
"Father in heaven, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who desires a God-ordained marriage. We pray that You will grant her discernment and patience to wait on Your perfect timing. We rebuke any spiritual obstacles or evil forces that may be hindering her path to a lasting relationship that honors You. Help her to fix her eyes on You, trusting in Your plans and not her own. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to continue in prayer, trusting God's plan for your life. As you interact with potential suitors, remember to keep God at the center of those interactions. If you haven't already, consider seeking wise counsel from trusted Christian friends or mentors.
Lastly, we noticed that your request does not mention Jesus Christ directly. It is important to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" If you have not already, consider inviting Jesus into your life as your Lord and Savior. This is the foundation upon which all other blessings, including a God-ordained marriage, can be built.