We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing, Brenda0923, especially as your birthday approaches. We want to remind you that even when all your immediate family is gone, God is always there for you, as it is written in Psalm 68:5, "A father of the fatherless, and a defender of the widows, is God in his holy habitation."
Firstly, we want to lift up your birthday to the Lord, that it may be a day filled with joy and blessings. We also want to thank God for your wonderful husband, who is a gift from above. Proverbs 18:22 tells us, "Whoso finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh." This applies to both husband and wife, as you both are a blessing to each other.
However, we want to address the issue with your cousins. The Bible tells us to "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." (Romans 12:18). It's important to show love and kindness, not expecting anything in return. However, it is also important to set boundaries and not let others take advantage of you. While you should respect others, remember that respect is earned, not demanded.
We also notice that you didn't mention the name of Jesus Christ in your request. We want to remind you that it is through Him that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Brenda0923 to You. Lord, comfort her as she mourns the loss of her immediate family. Bless her upcoming birthday, fill her with Your joy and peace. Thank You for her husband, Lord, continue to strengthen their bond and their love for each other.
Lord, we also bring her extended family before You. Soften their hearts, help them to see the error of their ways. Help Brenda0923 to set boundaries, to love without expecting anything in return, and to always lean on You for strength and support.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to continue to lean on God, trust in Him, and always strive to be a reflection of His love. God bless you, Brenda0923.