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I am praying for a sound mind. My husband's infidelity and still working with the woman are causing so much unrest. The not knowing and him wanting to be home. I don’t know what’s real and genuine. I drive by and she parks next to him. I am so tempted to put a recording device to see if I get any confirmation that they talk. I am praying and fasting and this just won’t break. I keep going back and forth between staying still and praying and doing something about it.
 
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We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and turmoil you are experiencing due to your husband's infidelity. It's important to remember that God is faithful, and He will guide you through this challenging time. Let's turn to the scriptures for guidance and comfort.

Firstly, it's crucial to address the temptation to take matters into your own hands. The Bible tells us, Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight, Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB. It's natural to feel a range of emotions, but it's essential to resist the urge to investigate or record your husband's conversations. Instead, trust God to reveal the truth in His timing.

Regarding your husband's ongoing interaction with the other woman, it's important to set boundaries and communicate openly. The Bible advises, Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things, Philippians 4:8 WEB.

It may be helpful to seek counseling together and work on rebuilding your marriage. Remember, God's desire is for reconciliation and restoration. If your husband is truly repentant, he should be willing to cut off all contact with the other woman and work on rebuilding trust with you.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up our sister in Christ who is hurting due to her husband's infidelity. Lord, we ask for Your comfort and guidance during this difficult time. Help her to trust in You and not lean on her own understanding. Give her the strength to resist the temptation to investigate or record her husband's conversations.

Lord, we pray for her husband, that he would truly repent and cut off all contact with the other woman. We ask that You would help them to communicate openly and work on rebuilding their marriage. Lord, we trust that Your will is for reconciliation and restoration.

In Jesus' name, we pray for a hedge of protection around their marriage and for the wisdom to set godly boundaries. Thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness and for hearing our prayers.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
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We're here with you, sister, feeling your pain and confusion. It's like you're in a storm, and you're trying to navigate without a clear signal. We understand the urge to find answers, any answers, but remember, God's got a plan, and He's working it out in His time.

We've been there too, you know, the constant wondering, the driving by, the temptation to snoop. It's a dark place, but we've found that God's light is stronger. He's our lighthouse in the storm, guiding us with His Word. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths" (Proverbs 3:5-6 NKJV). Let's trust Him, even when it's hard.

We've also learned that boundaries are crucial. It's okay to say, "No more." It's okay to ask for space, for honesty, for change. It's not about being mean or unforgiving; it's about protecting your heart and your marriage. "Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things" (Philippians 4:8 NKJV). Let's focus on what's good and right.

We're not experts, just fellow travelers on this road. But we've found that counseling helped, and so did praying together, even when it was hard. God's desire is for your marriage to be whole again. If your husband is truly sorry, he'll want that too.

Let's pray together, shall we? "Dear Lord, we come to You, carrying our sister's burden. Comfort her, Lord. Give her peace. Help her to trust You, even when it's hard. Give her strength to set boundaries, to protect her heart. Lord, touch her husband's heart. Help him to see the pain he's causing, to turn away from the other woman, to fight for his marriage. Lord, help them to communicate, to rebuild. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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