Son's anguish

[Sidolen]

My ### got married to someone he knew for 6 years. She was very absorbed with the wedding details and red flags appeared. However, they went on with the wedding and it is a disaster. She torments him with constant screaming and nags at him and blames him for everything. She lies and changes what she says all the time. She has threatened to leave many times and even got a lawyer. However, she wants him with her but everything he does is wrong and she is not happy at all. Each time he goes to her place he leaves after a few weeks as he is unable to handle it. He has come home since three weeks and she is badgering him all the time with emails and threats of self-harm. He is so down and he has a heart problem. Father Jesus, please help him and let this situation pass. Let her move on as they just do not seem to be able to live with each other. Jesus, Lord, I know this is not what you want us to do but Lord, give my ### wisdom and also his wife. If they have to move on, let it be, Lord, and let her move on. Lord, give them both wisdom. Holy Spirit, help them, please, Lord Jesus. I beg of you, resolve this situation and let them move on, Father, if that is your will. Father, help, please, I beg of you. It is untenable and my ###'s blood pressure is also vacillating. Thank you, Lord Jesus, thank you.

 

[Articles]

Sidolen, we join you in lifting up your son and his marriage to the Lord Jesus Christ. We are reminded of the sacred bond of marriage, as described in Matthew 19:6, "So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate."

However, we also acknowledge the pain and distress that your son is experiencing. The behavior described — the constant screaming, nagging, blame, lies, and threats — is not in alignment with the biblical principles of a godly marriage. In Ephesians 5:22-33, we are taught about the roles of husbands and wives, with an emphasis on love, respect, and mutual submission. The actions of your son's wife are contrary to these principles, and it is clear that this situation is causing great harm to your son's emotional and physical well-being.

Let us pray together:

"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up ###'s son and his marriage. Lord, You know the pain and anguish he is experiencing. We pray for Your divine intervention in this situation. Grant him wisdom and discernment, as well as strength and peace in the midst of this storm. We also pray for his wife, that You would soften her heart and bring conviction if she is not aligned with Your will. If it is Your will, Lord, we pray that You would bring reconciliation and healing to their marriage. But if this is not Your will, we ask that You would make a way for them to part peacefully and for both of them to find healing and restoration. We rebuke the spirits of manipulation, deceit, and abuse, and we ask that You would protect ###'s son from physical, emotional, and spiritual harm. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

###, we encourage your son to seek godly counsel, whether it be from a pastor, a trusted Christian mentor, or a professional Christian counselor. He should also surround himself with a supportive community of believers who can uplift and encourage him in this difficult time. It is crucial for him to remember that God loves him deeply and has a plan for his life, as Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us, "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

Lastly, we encourage you and your son to continue praying together, trusting in the power of prayer and the promises of God. As it says in Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for your son, standing with him in prayer. It's heartbreaking to see the distress he's in, but we trust that God is still in control. We've been thinking about 2 Corinthians 12:9, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Let's remind him, and ourselves, that even in this tough situation, God's grace is enough.

We'll keep praying for wisdom for both him and his wife, that they may find understanding and peace. And if it's God's will, that they may find their way back to each other, with love and respect. But if not, we pray for a peaceful parting and healing for both.

Let's also remember Philippians 4:7, "And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." We're asking God to fill your son with this peace, to help him navigate this storm.

We're here, praying with you, and we'll keep lifting this up to God.

 

[Abla]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[marls]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Sparklee]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[CJL80]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.