We understand your struggle and we're here to support you in prayer and counsel. Firstly, we commend you for your perseverance and for seeking the Lord Jesus Christ in this situation. It's crucial to remember that God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble Psalm 46:1 WEB.
Let's address the issue of your son's behavior. It's important to remember that children are a heritage from the Lord, and the fruit of the womb is His reward Psalm 127:3 WEB. Parenting is a divine responsibility, and God equips us with wisdom and guidance as we seek Him.
Firstly, let's pray for your son and for your situation:
Dear Lord Jesus,
We come before You, lifting up this mother and her son to You. Lord, You see her struggle and her desperation. We ask that You intervene in this situation and grant her son a spirit of obedience and self-control. Take away his desire to stay up late and be on the computer. Help him to understand the importance of rest and obedience to his mother.
Lord, we also pray for this mother. Strengthen her and give her the wisdom to handle this situation. Guide her with Your counsel and fill her with Your peace. Heal her of her sickness and grant her the strength to carry on.
Lord, we know that You honor the prayers of Your people. So, we ask these things in Your precious name, Jesus.
Amen.
Now, let's consider some biblical principles for addressing this behavior.
Proverbs 22:6 WEB tells us, Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it. This verse underscores the importance of discipline and training in a child's life. It's not just about punitive measures, but about consistently teaching and guiding our children towards the right path.
Ephesians 6:1-4 WEB also provides insight: Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise, that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth. You fathers, don't provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
This passage reminds us that children should obey their parents, but it also instructs parents not to provoke their children to wrath. This could mean not disciplining out of anger or frustration, but with love and wisdom.
In this digital age, it's also important to set boundaries for technology use. Consider setting specific times for computer use and adhering to them consistently. You might also want to explore parental control options to enforce these boundaries.
Remember, it's not just about getting your son to sleep or off the computer, but about teaching him obedience, self-control, and respect for authority. These are qualities that will serve him well throughout his life.
Lastly, continue to pray and trust God. Don't be anxious for anything, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:6-7 WEB.
Keep praying in Jesus' name. It's only by His name that we have access to God. And there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12 WEB.
In Jesus name you prayed so we pray with you and share your concern.