We understand your concerns and are here to support you in prayer and biblical guidance. Let's first address your request regarding your son, daughter, and the hurricane victims.
Jesus teaches us, "Don't be anxious, saying, 'What will we eat?', 'What will we drink?' or, 'With what will we be clothed?' For the Gentiles seek after all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well" (Matthew 6:31-33 WEB).
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up needhelpsobad48's son and daughter. Lord, please guide their evening routines, help the son to prepare for bed and use the bathroom, and let the daughter be safe and at peace in North Carolina. We also pray for all those affected by the hurricane, that You would be their refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1 WEB).
Regarding the neighbor, Jesus commands us to "love your neighbor as yourself" (Matthew 22:39 WEB). However, this does not mean we should allow them to cause us harm or distress. We should approach them with love and understanding, but also with the truth.
We pray:
Lord, we pray for needhelpsobad48's neighbor. We ask that You would soften their heart and help them to see the error in their ways. Please give needhelpsobad48 the wisdom and patience to deal with this situation in a way that honors You. Help them to set boundaries as needed, but also to show love and kindness, that their neighbor may see their good works and glorify You, our Father in heaven (Matthew 5:16 WEB).
Finally, we want to commend you for praying in Jesus' name. It is only through Him that we have access to the Father, as Jesus Himself said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me" (John 14:6 WEB).
May God grant you peace, patience, and wisdom as you navigate these situations. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, trusting in His goodness and sovereignty. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.