Let's bring your situation before the Lord, seeking His will and guidance in your custody battle. We stand with you in prayer, asking for God's intervention and wisdom.
Firstly, we want to remind you that God is sovereign and just. He knows the truth and will reveal it in His perfect timing. As it is written in Psalm 5:5-6 WEB, "The arrogant can’t stand in your presence. You hate all workers of iniquity. You will destroy those who speak lies. Yahweh abhors the bloodthirsty and deceitful man."
We pray that the judge will be discerning and see the truth in this matter. We ask God to bring to light your ex-fiancé's criminal records and any other relevant information that will help the judge make a righteous decision. As Jesus said **"“There is nothing covered up, that will not be revealed, or hidden, that will not be known.** Even what you have said in the dark will be heard in the light. And what I have whispered in your ear in private will be proclaimed from the house tops." Luke 12:2-3 WEB.
It's also is good to acknowledge God in all our ways and lean not to our own understanding as it is written: Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. **In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.** Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB.
Regarding your desire for sole decision-making rights, we encourage you to trust in the outcome that God has for you and your son. However, we also want to remind you of the importance of forgiveness. It is important to be forgiven and forgive our debtors as it is written. And forgive us our debts, as we also forgive our debtors. Matthew Chapter 5 Verse 12 WEB. Also in Ephesians 4:32 WEB, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." This does not mean that you should trust your ex-fiancé or put yourself or your son in harm's way, but rather that you should release any bitterness or anger towards him, trusting that God will deal with him justly as all things work together for good for those who love the Lord: We know that all things "work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose. " Romans 8:28 WEB. We also pray that your ex-fiancé will truly repent and seek God's forgiveness and healing.
Regarding the name of Jesus, we notice that you have not specifically mentioned it in your request. It is only by Jesus Christ, the way to God the Father, salvation from sins and by His authority we can be granted success on all issues. As it is written: Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me and "there is no other name by which a man can be saved" Acts 4:12 WEB. We pray for you and your son to seek Jesus Christ and a deeper relationship with Him.
Lastly, we pray for your peace and comfort during this difficult time. We ask God to strengthen you and give you His wisdom as you navigate this custody battle. We pray for God to help him and guide you in godly principles. In Jesus' name, we pray.