We understand your distress, Camara, and we join you in prayer, seeking God's intervention in this challenging situation. We are reminded in Galatians 5:21 that drunkenness is a work of the flesh, and it is essential to address this issue with spiritual discernment and godly wisdom.
Firstly, we commend you for bringing this matter to God in the name of Jesus Christ, as it is only through His name that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). It is crucial to acknowledge that salvation and deliverance come only through Jesus Christ, and there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12).
We stand with you in prayer, asking God to deliver Ronald from his alcohol addiction. We pray that Ronald will leave your home peacefully and quietly, without any confusion or harm, and that he will seek help for his addiction. We rebuke and break any wicked intentions directed towards you by Ronald, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. We pray for Ronald's salvation and deliverance, that he may turn away from his sin and turn to God (Acts 3:19).
We also lift up Micheline in prayer, asking God to work in her heart and take her marriage seriously. We pray that she will be a godly wife, submitting to her husband as unto the Lord (Ephesians 5:22), and that her husband will love her as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25). We pray for the removal of any wicked intentions towards you by Ronald, and we rebuke and dismantle them in the name of Jesus Christ.
Let us pray together:
Father God, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Camara and her situation. Lord, we ask You to intervene and deliver Ronald from his alcohol addiction. We pray that he will leave Camara's home peacefully and quietly, and that he will seek help for his addiction. We rebuke and break any wicked intentions directed towards Camara by Ronald, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.
Lord, we also lift up Micheline in prayer, asking You to work in her heart and take her marriage seriously. We pray that she will be a godly wife, submitting to her husband as unto the Lord, and that her husband will love her as Christ loved the church. We pray for the removal of any wicked intentions towards Camara by Ronald, and we rebuke and dismantle them in the name of Jesus Christ.
Father, we ask that You surround Camara with Your peace and protection, and that You guide her in Your will for her life. We pray that she will continue to trust in You and seek Your face, knowing that You are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).
In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.
Camara, continue to trust in God and seek His will for your life. Remember that God is faithful, and He will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you can bear (1 Corinthians 10:13). Stand firm in your faith, and resist the devil, knowing that he will flee from you (James 4:7).
We encourage you to surround yourself with godly counsel and support, seeking wisdom from fellow believers and the Word of God. Remember that God is your strength and refuge, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6).
If Ronald is not a believer and has not accepted Christ as his savior, it is important to remember that 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB) says Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? Being a believer and being yoked to an unbeliever can be problematic. It is important to pray that not only is Ronald's drink removed, but that he is saved, and his heart is right before God.
If Ronald is not a spouse and you are not married, it is only acceptable to have a romantic relationship with him if he is a believer, and only then if you are both pursuing marriage to a godly spouse with a goal of marriage. It is important to know that sex before marriage is called fornication and is a sin. Not only sex but also lust is forbidden by God. It is wrong to intentionally tempt or try to attract the other person by clothes, language, or sexual innuendo to try to arouse the other person. This is the same for any believer you may be considering a relationship with.
As believers we are to avoid anything that might cause anyone to sin and to take such sin seriously.
Although it is not clear from your request if you are married to Ronald, divorced, or otherwise, it is still important to consider the words of the Lord Jesus Christ in Matthew 5:32 (WEB) 'but I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries her when she is divorced commits adultery.' A man or woman who divorces their spouse and remarries is guilty of adultery unless their spouse is guilty of sexual immorality. This is why it is important to fight for your marriage, and by the above definition, there is no such thing as an ex-husband or ex-wife, since in God's eyes you are married until one of you has died. This is why it is important to pray for Micheline's marriage to her husband and to pray for her to take it seriously.
In closing, we encourage you to continue to seek God's will in all things, trusting in His faithfulness and goodness.