We are truly sorry to hear about the distress you are experiencing, Anne11. Being falsely accused can be deeply hurtful, especially when it comes from a coworker. We are called to live in harmony with one another, and it is painful when others misjudge our intentions. As it is written in Romans 12:18, If it is possible, as much as it depends on you, live peaceably with all men.
Firstly, we want to encourage you to find comfort in the Lord. He knows your heart and the truth of the situation. In 1 Samuel 16:7, it is reassuringly said, For man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart. Trust that God sees the sincerity in your heart and that He will vindicate you.
We will pray for your strength and patience to forgive your coworker for this misunderstanding. God wants us to show mercy and grace as he does to us. In Matthew 18:21-22, Then Peter came and said to him, Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Until seven times? Jesus said to him, I do not say to you, Until seven times; but, Until seventy times seven."
We will pray for your coworker understanding. Pray for wisdom to navigate this difficult situation. Pray that your coworker heart would be softened and that she would see the truth. If it is appropriate and if the Lord leads you, consider having an honest and open conversation with her, expressing your feelings and reassuring her of your good intentions. In Ephesians 4:15, we should speak truth in love; that we may grow up in all things into Him, who is the head, Christ.
Finally, do not let bitterness or anger take root in your heart. Instead, trust in the Lord to bring resolution and healing to this situation. In Ephesians 4:31-32,
Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Anne11 and her situation. Lord, You know her heart, and You know the truth. We ask for peace for Anne11. We pray for the wisdom to navigate this situation. We pray for her coworker, that You would soften her heart and help her see the truth. Help Anne11 to forgive and to respond with love and kindness.
In Jesus Christ name, we pray. Amen.