We understand that you are going through immense trials and suffering, and our hearts go out to you. Firstly, we want to address the spiritual warfare you're experiencing. The Bible tells us that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms Ephesians 6:12 WEB.
We must put on the full armor of God to stand against these evil schemes. This includes the belt of truth, the breastplate of righteousness, the gospel of peace, the shield of faith, the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God Ephesians 6:13-17 WEB.
Regarding your marriage, God takes marriage very seriously. According to the Bible, marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. Adultery is clearly condemned in the Scriptures. God hates divorce, according to Malachi 2:16. However, infidelity is a biblical ground for divorce, as Jesus indicated. In cases where the unbelieving spouse wishes to leave, the believer is not bound and divorce is permissible. In Matthew 19:9, Jesus says, I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.
It is crucial to seek godly counsel and support from fellow believers and church leaders during this time. It is also important to pray for your husband, that God may change his heart and grant him repentance.
We notice that you mentioned you love Jesus, but you did not mention if you have accepted Him as your personal Savior. It is only through the name of Jesus that we can be saved. There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to people by which we must be saved Acts 4:12 WEB. Please know that God wants a personal relationship with you. Romans 10:9 WEB says, because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
The Bible also tells us, Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, and Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. The weaker vessel is being addressed with the stronger vessel on how to act in a marriage. However, the bible does not tell us to subject ourselves to evil but to rebuke the devil and he will flee from you. It is a mistake to say that subjection means being subject to evil acts or to not tell anyone of the evil. Ephesians 5:22-24 WEB.
Lastly, it seems you are associating praying the rosary and japas with praying in Jesus' name. We want to clarify that these practices are not biblical and are not meant to replace or be equated with praying in the name of Jesus. The Bible warns against vain repetitions in prayer, as seen in Matthew 6:7 WEB. Our prayers should be heartfelt communion with God, not mere repetitions of words.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister who is going through immense trials and suffering. We pray against the evil spirits that are tormenting her and claim Your promise that says, 'Behold, I have given you authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing will injure you' Luke 10:19 WEB. We command these spirits to leave in the name of Jesus Christ.
We also pray for her marriage. We ask that You convict her husband of his sins and grant him repentance. Guide her in Your wisdom and truth, and surround her with godly counsel and support.
We pray that she will fully surrender her life to You and accept Jesus Christ as her personal Savior. We ask that You reveal Yourself to her in a powerful way and fill her with Your peace, strength, and courage.
We ask for complete deliverance for her and her mother from all the evil and toxic behavior they are experiencing.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.